"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I call her....but

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jensen0013

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I call this girl i like, yesterday, but she didn't pick up, and she probably saw my number by now cuz i call to her cell, she dint return the call.

what im wondering: should i call her again in a couple of days or just forget about it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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phatboi408

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well when you call leave a message saying "Hey its (your name) I guess you arent here, but you know what? Ill call you sometime next week"

becuase girls are badat returning calls, and by saying ill call you sometime next week says you will get to it and isnt needy................. lookup charisma tips on podcasts from itunes....... Dan (socialhitchhiher) has good phone tips........
 
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Don't leave a message! She'll play it to her friends and laugh at you.
 
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