"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So frustrating

Pierce

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So I can pull many many girls but I got one thing holding be back big time........ I cannot keep hard to save my life. this **** is so frustrating. Anyone have any suggestions????
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pierce

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**** is crazy. its like im semi hard thru da 4 play but when shes ready it goes away. **** is holding me back big time. and she wont dome me up
 

BigJimbo

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What about going to the bathroom and taking some soap and rubbing it in. Help yourself out a bit. You might just need some alone time. Get yourself refocused on the job at hand. This has worked for me in the past.
 
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