"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so exes that respond still might hit it one day

vinkoch

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My buddy and I had this talk last night. He says nothing's wrong with texting females even when they turn you down because you get in their head and make them think about you so you just might get lucky one day. He said this more true with an ex. If she responds then you still have chance for anything you might want from her and you just have to be persistent and not take anything personal. He was saying that to counter me saying you just look desperate and need to move on. He said only if she not responding to you. Even a simple reply that says hi is good even if she has a man.
I don't know what do you all think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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By the time an ex hits me up, I've already moved on. Under my one strike rule, I won't give her another chance. She's likely trying to get another beta orbiter anyway.

There's always a reason for a breakup, and it's typically loss of interest or a better person entered the picture, or the ex came back. AFAIC, I'm moving forward. Backpedaling does no good. It's better to go after a new woman who has high interest.
 

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see that's funny to me how we all say women don't take they exes serious but we're all worried about her going back to the ex when they're on contact with them
 

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There was a reason you broke up. Is now the reason permanently removed? The only instance I could think of is the guy lives at home and parents hate her, she can't take it, she dumps him. Then he moves out, she comes back. That's pretty much the only instance I find it acceptable to get back together. If she got a crush on someone, then realized the guy was way worse than now ex and she comes back crying, then hell no.
 
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