SNLs - For those who actually pull...

[Nutz]

What seems to be a regular part of your game when you have success? Do you take the less is more approach, is it relying on good looks, etc? Basically what do YOU think is the key element of YOUR success.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I don't know man. Everytime it's happened, is due to luck I think. I have to be at the right place at the right time. And she has to be willing and ready, else it's very difficult to get the woman to see how great I really am. Other times, if one little thing is off, the girl will get spooked FOR WHATEVER REASON - God only knows, and no matter what I DO she won't care for me one bit. Women are grade-A moody. You can't predict them. They really just want to suck the life right out of you. And they will discard you at a moment's notice. I don't care WHO you are, as a man. Women always want to be lively. They want to smell the flowers and breathe in the trees/butterflies. If you can't always give that to them, then they feel suffocated, and want to go out and spend YOUR hard earned money on a new cellphone or God knows what, to get them out of that feeling of Death they might have creeping on. We, as guys, can deal with death, and ugliness. Women, 9 times outta 10, cannot. They want only to smell the tulips, and you've gotta give that to them ALL the time, or they become complacent eventually.

We're the hunters, they're the gatherers.

 

[slickaz]

i think its a mix of taking care of yourself, your appearance and portraying confidence.
most times, saying less at times when more is needed is a winner, and other times, saying more when everyone is saying less(as in making people laugh when they tense) also works.

but always doing YOU not anyone else. being original and confidence.

ive noticed that confidence is something that everygirl has complimented me on. its usually "I liked you straight away coz you were so confident, so relaxed and were very articulate, thinking about what you said before you say it...very attractive" its usually something along the lines of that.

i think seriously, girls think about "can i take this guy to my mums house and intro him to the women in my family?" or "Will my girlfriends be jealous of me when they see me with this guy?"
its hardly ever "will i get along with this guy?"

 

[Gustav Yavo]

Every girl ive been with has complimented me on being "genuine", often they'll mention that its because of the way i carry myself, the way i act in social settings, my smile, and eye contact.

I always took it as sorta saying the same thing as saying im confident because them saying that is basically saying i know who i am, and im confident in showing my best traits.

 

[Jitterbug]

What seems to be a regular part of your game when you have success? Do you take the less is more approach, is it relying on good looks, etc? Basically what do YOU think is the key element of YOUR success.

I've had a few SNLs and the key to it has always been logistics. Half of it are planned in advance by me, the rest are down to timing & luck.

Other parts of the game are the same for when I have to go for a number close for a later date. The attraction level is similar, but the logistics aren't there to make use of it.