Kerensky
Master Don Juan
Hey I just got the 3 season DVDs as a gift and I gotta say it's an awesome series. Anyone else a fan? It's pretty realistic and it serves as motivation for me. Not for DJing or anything, but for being virtuous and all.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Smallville
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Silquee Smoove
Master Don Juan
My sentiments exactly, a game of mental chess where each tries to checkmate each other.
The rest is crap, the writers' have been playing that Clark/Lana storyline into the dirt, real-life women would've left his a$$ for someone more decisive by now.
Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
I try to follow the show as much as I can. It's a good show, except for this Lana/Witchcraft crap they have going on now. Lana is a terrible character.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kerensky
Master Don Juan
I like how Lana looks...or rather...how Kristin Kreuk looks. Lana is the show seems like an attention monger despite having her parents killed in the meteor storm. Crazy schizzle, but yeah, I've seen like all of first season and now the DVDs will help me catch up.
InsidiousNstinct
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Good show, I don't get to watch it a lot but when I have a chance I do.
That Lois Lane is a hottie....
That Lois Lane is a hottie....
i've been watching the series since it started, i can say it has an interesting plot/storyline as it unfolds for clark and lex. Lana is just the topping on the cake.
But man...Clark is one major AFC in the department of women. I'm betting if he didnt have his powers he'd be an absolute ***** in general.
It's all the writers' doing!!
But man...Clark is one major AFC in the department of women. I'm betting if he didnt have his powers he'd be an absolute ***** in general.
It's all the writers' doing!!