"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Slow Resonance

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Toronto is a city on the move. Exotic cars & motorcycles race Yonge street. 9 to 5ers rushing to catch that train home. So how do we stand out with everything moving all around us? Slowing down not only your movements but rate of speech will set you apart. There are numerous studies showing that men with deeper voices and controlled speech attract more ladies. Any change you want to make in your life begins with awareness. During conversation take note of rate of speech. Take the time to go over video or audio recording of yourself talking. Practice having a conversation in the mirror speaking slow and deep. Consistency is a very important aspect to change any behavior. Improving fundamentals to your communication is the base while techniques are a plus.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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