'Red-pilled' principles are about being a masculine man, screening for a quality woman who has high interest level and then getting into a relationship with her. That's what counts as success.
In the 2 cases you mentioned, we're dealing with women of dubious quality (I'm not referring to physical attractiveness) and the OP isn't in a relationship with either of them. He just fvcked them.
Orbiting a woman for months to get access to pvssy, particularly considering that OP is based in an area where sex workers are legal and easily available ... sounds to me like he grossly overpaid in time and energy, but hey, to each their own.
He has a point though, a lot of women will monkey branch when the relationship is over long time before she actually cheats
How many women have you met that put an end to the relationship and then went hoeing or not ?
Even men more or less kinda behave the same, no guy will end a relationship unless it is very toxic or he already has a side piece or the woman breakups up with him
Actually, the funny thing is that whoever does the breaking up will make the other person emotionally damaged, no matter if the relationship was good or bad or at the end
From my experience, women who are single when you meet them were dumped before, and you have to go through all the drama that comes after the guy breaks up with them
I think that overall we should not have unrealistic expectations from men or women, sure some things are not ethical, but at the end of the day one thing is to say that something is unethical and totally a different thing is to bash up someone solely based on some unrealistic expectations that no one almost ever adheres to them
Overall, yeah he is unethical because he smashed a girl that has a bf, but he played the game quite well ( mainly due to self awareness )
Also, quality escorts are like minimum 300 euros per hour. Gets quite expensive if you want to have a good time at the high end spectrum
Paying for a meh escorts( which btw is like 200 euros) does not worth it
From my end, it is only worth going to really high end escorts ( but they are really expensive- for most men at least), otherwise better to put the effort short or long on scoring girls from cold approaches/ social circle/tinder. You have a way better ROI than paying for meh girls for sex