"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Slipping into AFC mode because I don't want to hurt this woman - thoughts please

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Well, she invited me to her house Thursday. However, I'm probably busy, so it looks like it will happen on the weekend.

Again, thanks for all the awesome input. I'll report back after I see her again.

Meanwhile, I got a # right away from a pretty hot 31 yr old who has been stalking my profile for a couple of weeks.

I definitely find it's best to let them find me, message me, or view my profile more than once.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WoodB said:
Let me set you straight. NEVER operate under pressure of "my options aren't as plentiful as they were 10 years ago." You will end up buying a ticket aboard the SS Titanic. There are plenty of men on this board who did just that, me included, who rue the day we got ourselves snookered by some broad. Keep a sharp eye, and don't let any woman take you for a ride.
Absolutely. Keep yourself healthy and in-shape and there's no reason you shouldn't have plenty of options in your late 40s. Yeah, you might not be banging 22 year olds, but women in their mid-30s and up are right there for you.
 
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