"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Slept with a girl...now she wants a relationship.

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Desdinova said:
I Agree with the others, tell her you're not ready. The funny thing about telling her this is it will make her IL go up and she'll work a bit harder to prove that she's worthy of a relationship.

Have fun!
Agree.

Plus she may try to "fix" your "fear of intimacy". :p 10-to-1 she thinks you're afraid of intimacy if you say you're not ready for a relationship. Nothing hooks a woman more than a man whom she wants but who doesn't want her. In most women's books, it simply cannot be that someone isn't interested in a relationship with them. Women often call that a fear of intimacy. It's simply the AFC in her that can't accept being rejected.

Watch and learn as she tries her best to make you comfortable and herself desireable in order to fix your "fear" of letting her close.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you don't want anything more from her - Tell her "we are too young to fall into serious relationships", "i'm kinda in the middle of making important decisions for my career at the moment", "i thought you were not the relationship type" :D - basically implying you're not ready, or you dont want it.

But if you want more sex from her, it's better to say something along the lines of "i like you, i think we get along, but i'm not ready to commit to anything exclusive at the moment". Make her work for you, keep her qualifying herself. Enjoy the sex until someone else comes along.
 
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