"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sleeping Time

KiLLer

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I need to know when everyone sleeps.
I am still *****ing with my dad about when to sleep. I told him I prefer to sleep around 10-11 PM at night on Monday-Thursday and 1-2+ AM on Friday and Saturday.
Give me an reason and a yes or no. If you're going to flame, don't bother, my dad wants to read.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lt dan

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it depends what time you wake up. i say on the weekends it dont make a damn bit of difference. but during the week, it would probably be best to be rested good like. i think they say 8 hours is good. but i dont know abnout all that. you know how sometimes you wake up with 4 hours of sleep and you have more energy all day than if you slept all night. i usually get to sleep at 10 if im gonna wake up at 530. and i usually feel pretty good.
 

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I sleep from 12-1 to 7:45 on weekdays.

On weekends I sleep from whenever I go to sleep(usually between 1 and 3) to whenever I wake up(usually about 10).
 

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A few years back, I was working a job that really screwed up my exercise schedule.

Instead of working out when I travelled I hung out with a group of hard core partyers.

I noticed that unequivocally the exercise was dramatically increasing my sleep needs. I needed the extra rest and still do when I exercise intensely.

When I went off exercise, I needed less sleep, but was less energetic during the day.

So get as much sleep as you can.
 

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I've generally noticed that going to sleep earlier (10-11) leads to a much more restful night. If I went to sleep really late, I'd wake up the next day and feel tired & sluggish (sadly I still do it, because I want to watch the late shows, Leno & Conan). But if you're used to going to bed at 3AM and suddenly go at 10PM, you'll probably wake up in the middle of the night and not be able to go back to sleep, at least until your body adjusts to the change. It's like being jetlagged.

I've also noticed I need around 9 hrs of sleep to feel well-rested the next day.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Noone answered my question.
My question was that "is it okay to sleep (read above) at the time I want to?"
 

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Originally posted by KiLLer
I need to know when everyone sleeps.
As I said before, I go to bed late because I watch the late shows. Maybe if you actually read my reply, you wouldn't complain that nobody answered your question.

I am still *****ing with my dad about when to sleep. I told him I prefer to sleep around 10-11 PM at night on Monday-Thursday and 12-1 (or rarely 2) AM on Friday and Saturday.
Agree or no? Give me an reason and yes or no. If you're going to flame, don't bother, my dad wants to read.
That sounds like a pretty normal sleep schedule, why does your dad not agree with this? What time do you have to wake up during the week?
 

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Yeah what time do you have to wake up?

If you can sleep in it's ok, but if you have a job where you gotta be there at 8, going to bed at 1 isn't so good.
 

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Re: Re: Sleeping Time

Originally posted by Slashco
As I said before, I go to bed late because I watch the late shows. Maybe if you actually read my reply, you wouldn't complain that nobody answered your question.



That sounds like a pretty normal sleep schedule, why does your dad not agree with this? What time do you have to wake up during the week?
Well that wasn't exactly my question, I meant is it OKAY.
I wanted an answer that's more direct, like "yes it's okay and I sleep at X".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yes its okay(why wouldnt it be?) Im in college and I don't know of any guys that go to bed before midnight on the weekdays. I go to bed at midnight to 1 on weekdays and 2-3am on weekends and I am always the first to go to bed. So you should outlive us all.
 
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