My gf loves staying over at my place. The problem is when it's time to go to bed (around 11ish as we both have to get up at 6:30 for work) she stays up on her phone catching up on work emails until around 12:30. She's not lying since I'll glance from the corner of my eye at her phone and see it is work related. What's worse is she'll go out for a cigarette and that's when I wake up. I'm a light sleeper and if my front door opens, I wake up immediately. I've already explained to her that it's messing with my sleep and that she needs to stop that or not stay over. She agreed she would be more mindful but it recently started happening again. Last night to be exact. I went outside to get her to tell her she can go home or come to bed, to which she returns in tears. Saying she's dealing with a lot at work. I'm trying to be empathetic but I just don't see a way around this. It's literally affecting me at MY work.
Any recommendations?
Any recommendations?