"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Skinny Rat to Beast: FD's Workout Log

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Boys,

Following some of the advice on this forum, I decided to start my workout log.

Background Info

I'm 17 years old, 6'0 @ 160 lbs. I play competitive football, hockey & soccer.
Been working out on and off for a year now, but due to the lack of motivation and the amount of cheating made ... the gains have been minimal..:D

Current Workout & Eating Plan

I'm currently using Anthony Ellis's workout plan ( skinnyguy.net ). Packed 10 lbs in a couple months, not bad. It's a heavy weight/ low reps program, built towards building type II B muscles.

So here's a sample of my daily diet ..

7am - Myoplex with Milk , 1.5 tbsp Udo's oil , banana or 2 slices of bread , 5g creatine with oj
10 am - 4/5 eggs & 4 slices of bread
1 pm - whatever the HS lunch program meal is + tin of tuna -> this is getting changed next month to home made meal.
4pm - Myoplex with Milk , banana or apple , 1.5 tbsp Udo's oil
7 pm - chicken/ steak along with pasta/rice and some veggies
10 pm - BioX Protein Shake ( 27 g ) with milk , 5g creatine & 5g glutamine

Alright here it is guys, feel free to tear it apart !

Today's workout :

Pull-ups all the way down ( 4 sets ) : 6-6-5-4

Reverse-Grip Bent-Over Rows : 8@85, 8@85 , 4@105 , 3@115 , burnout 10@65 , superset 10@ 65 followed by 15@110 lateral pull-downs , Im not sure if thats how it's called.

Bicep Curls Barbell 8@50 4@55 3@60 1@65 Burnout 6@40
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey man, how much protein would you say you're getting? You want at least 250, more like 320 if you can.

Workout doesn't look bad, what's the full routine mate?
 

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shaunuk said:
Hey man, how much protein would you say you're getting? You want at least 250, more like 320 if you can.

Workout doesn't look bad, what's the full routine mate?
I'd say I'm getting about 200 grams from meat/tuna and shakes. Do you think I should amp it up?
 

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Yeah man, keep up the good work, but bump your protein way up. Add a 60g protein shake (40g protein from whey + 3-4 raw eggs), so you'll have 260g. From there work up to eating 12+ raw eggs a day, trying to get your protein past 300g per day :)
 

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Today Legs Workout

Deadlifts : 12@100 10@120 7@140 4@160 burnout 20@30

Squats : 12@35 [on each side], I used the Smith machine, and I dont know what the initial resistance is, 9@45 , 6@55 , 5@65 burnout 15@25

Calf raises (strip sets) : 17@115/11@135/9@115
16@115/8@135/8@135
those strip sets really pumped my calves, I get that feeling they're gonna explode during 20 secs after my reps :D .

Crunches 4 slow sets of 20 reps / flat.

and yes shaunuk I've been getting tons of protein today:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Today was Chest&Shoulds

Bench Press flat : 6@135 3@145 2@155 failed at 1@165 but came close
burnout 12@95 superset 10@95 followed by 12@25 pec flyes

Shoulder Press : 8@25 7@30 3@35 1@40 burnout 8@10 superset 8@10 followed by dumbell lat raises 6@10 each dumbell

Dips 7reps/5/5 followed by two sets of triceps pulldowns 8@50

Guys, got a quick question here : I've been doing quite a bit of research on creatine on the internet over the past few days, because I heard a couple people say bad things about creatine, and because I started using it a couple weeks ago ( it's been great so far, gives you the extra push )... Well, I went on a couple different websites, and they have different opinions on the subject. What do you think ? Any health related risks? I've read sayings about enlarged hearts , and that creeped me out.
 

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Hey guys it's been quite a while. I went to Quebec for a week, then kinda forgot about this forum for a bit. Here it is :

March 3rd,

Chest&Shoulds

Bench Press- 9@135 4@145 2@155 5@160 ( that looks weird I know but I had that burst of energy, the gym's TV started playing a Victoria's Secret commercial .. the testosterone was flowing like no other ) Superset 8@125 followed by 5@35 dumbell chest press.

Close-grip Bench Press- 10@90 5@105 3@105 followed by 8@50 on the tricep pulldown.

Shoulder Dumbell Press 5@30 --- man at that point my shoulders were extra sore .. tried to do another set but it was just a waste of time .

weight update - weighed myself last night @166 . pretty good progress.

Keep up the help guys it's great if you have any suggestions dont hesitate .
 
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