Today, I found out my GF lied to me. Big time.
Here's the story:
Today, me and my GF were supposed to hang out and drink with her and her friend, lets call her Nina. I remember how yesterday she clearly said she'd call me today and tell me what time to come over. She never called.
So I call her at 5, and she says I told her I was going to be busy today. I told her that I have never said that, she said she was probably faded, but yesterday she told me she didn't smoke pot. When I brought up that fact, she said "wait, what"? Obvious BS right there. Right there I said bye and hung up.
A few hours later at 8, she calls me up, acts like nothing happened and asks if her and her friends could go pick me up from her house. I told her that I was still upset about what happened earlier. She asked if she could call me back later and hung up.
In between these two events, my friend called, and said that my GF and Nina came by his house around one, but he wasn't there. This could be because Nina likes my friend. My GF didn't tell me about this.
Then half hour later, my GF calls again and told me she was really sorry and that she wanted to make it up to me. I asked her why she was BSing me. Her reply was "I dunno". I said "you do, you just don't want to tell me". She said "Im really drunk right now". I told her to call me back when she was sober and hung up.
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Not only did she lie to me, she also never told me she couldn't hang out and just left me waiting.
Also when she was talking on the phone, I could hear a guys talking. It could have been her bro and his friends, because they sometimes chill together with my GF.
How should I go about this?
I know it's really ****ed up to lie like that, but I also know that people make mistakes.
Before dumping her, I am going to gather more info from my friend, who's going to call up Nina tomorrow and ask what they came to his house for.
Thanks for the help.
Here's the story:
Today, me and my GF were supposed to hang out and drink with her and her friend, lets call her Nina. I remember how yesterday she clearly said she'd call me today and tell me what time to come over. She never called.
So I call her at 5, and she says I told her I was going to be busy today. I told her that I have never said that, she said she was probably faded, but yesterday she told me she didn't smoke pot. When I brought up that fact, she said "wait, what"? Obvious BS right there. Right there I said bye and hung up.
A few hours later at 8, she calls me up, acts like nothing happened and asks if her and her friends could go pick me up from her house. I told her that I was still upset about what happened earlier. She asked if she could call me back later and hung up.
In between these two events, my friend called, and said that my GF and Nina came by his house around one, but he wasn't there. This could be because Nina likes my friend. My GF didn't tell me about this.
Then half hour later, my GF calls again and told me she was really sorry and that she wanted to make it up to me. I asked her why she was BSing me. Her reply was "I dunno". I said "you do, you just don't want to tell me". She said "Im really drunk right now". I told her to call me back when she was sober and hung up.
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Not only did she lie to me, she also never told me she couldn't hang out and just left me waiting.
Also when she was talking on the phone, I could hear a guys talking. It could have been her bro and his friends, because they sometimes chill together with my GF.
How should I go about this?
I know it's really ****ed up to lie like that, but I also know that people make mistakes.
Before dumping her, I am going to gather more info from my friend, who's going to call up Nina tomorrow and ask what they came to his house for.
Thanks for the help.