"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kool-Aid Man

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This girl that i dated last yeart is starting to hang around me in school whenever she has the chance. She laughs at things that i say, sometimes things that arent even funny. Does she like me and should i try to hook up with her?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Axcell

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Every girl I talk to laughs because they find me humorous, that doesn't mean they like me, it just means that I developed rapport with many of them and they enjoy spending time with me.

Do you like her and would you like to go out with her? If so, continue to spend time with each other and many more IOI (Indicators if interest) will show, than I would do a number exchange, and plan to spend time with her outside of school.

If you got any other quick and specific questions, PM me.
 
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