"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Situation With me and my Ex

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okay so irecently got dumped by this girl and she said that we didnt connect and that i never called her and i never saw her, even though she stood me up like 5 times. I asked her to give it another go, and she said shell try but not now, only we know each other better, and werre both having trouble getting comfortable around each other so i was thinking of calling her and this is what i was gonna say
her: Hey
me: Hey
Her: Whats Up
Me: i think we should talk about this break up situation
her: K
me: i think we should focus on fixing things instead of just breaking up completley
Me: because i want to be with you and i am willing to fix our problems if your willing to also.

do you think i should do this since its pretty much restating what we already talked about, and how can we get to be more comfortable around each other since im starting to like her more now, i was afc and stupid and nervous in the beginning but now ive seen my mistakes and im willing to fix it so we can remain together, but i need help making her feel comfortable around me, i could have been albe to done that only if she hadnt cancelled on me like 4 times to hang out. So i think thats what ruined it but i dont want to hit on any new girls yet i just wanna focus on getting back with her for now.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok, dont be a an AFC. Just next her or you can try to get her to be more attracted to you but there are more fish in the lake.
 
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