Single Mothers

[Vigs]

Everyone advises to not let a single mother in as anything other than a FB. Where does everyone live that there are a plethora of women without kids? I cant think of a single woman above the age 26 who does not have at least one kid.

At 39, most of the women I meet are divorced with multiple kids.

 

[Stort_Brød]

good luck with that!

It is hard enough to find a 18-25 year old without a kid in my city haha.

 

[Big Nuts]

Single mothers are low hanging fruit...enjoy them. Just remember that you will always be 5-6th on their priority list. As a result, you will go sometimes 2-3 weeks without banging her as she is busy with her kids etc. In the meantime...hit the single mother who is free....plates be spinning!

Warning: One of the most frustrating things with single mothers is that they still think they "got it" in the SMV area...they don't...they're banged out, hate their ex, fat in the wrong places, vagina like a clown's pocket, tired and sick all the time, miserable....they are not WORTH SH!T...so don't put up with any of their delusional games when they think that you should wait to bang them...LOL...um NEVER!!!!

Date 2 or 3....or NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Solomon]

Tons of chicks who are aren't SM's in my area but they usually tend to be younger

I have two plates that are SM's and they are great because they both know it's just sex the come over get what they need and leave

It's that simple but some want more those be the ones I gotta run away from

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Everyone advises to not let a single mother in as anything other than a FB. Where does everyone live that there are a plethora of women without kids? I cant think of a single woman above the age 26 who does not have at least one kid.

At 39, most of the women I meet are divorced with multiple kids.

KJ's will tell you that all day.

I've dated plenty of single mothers, some hot as fvck with their $hit together.

Unless they're in their 20's, the only place you'll find a single chick without any baggage is in fantasy land.

 

[MikeOck]

Maybe it helps that I live in the most densely populated state in the US, but there are plenty of women my age who don't have kids in my area. Most of them simply don't want kids, a few I've met do want kids but were in long relationships with men who didn't.

Personally, I prefer to date younger women without kids. You'd be surprised by how many women there are in their mid-twenties who want to date older men.

Having said that, single mothers can be a lot of fun, just keep it strictly business and don't get attached.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Some of my best plates have been single moms. The weekends they're kid(s) is/are away, they're basically showing up to my place in lingerie with a bottle of bourbon in their hands.

I've dated a few single hotties that were around my age, no kids, never been married. There's always a reason why beautiful women in their mid 30's have never been married. It mostly comes down to them being a headache in the end with some big time problems.

Give me the 26 year old with a kid over a 35 year old with nothing.

I'm a single dad so my view may be a little skewed. I was also mostly raised by a step-dad who was awesome.

At my age, a kid isn't going to giver her any red flags. It is what it is.

But hey, if you can constantly pull 20 somehting 9's and 10's with no baggage, then good for you.

 

[backbreaker]

the kid in itself is not a red flag. tha't too black and white.

how she came about the kid on the other hand is the red flag.

 

[Lexington]

There is a greater proportion of single moms in smaller towns and rural areas. In urban areas, more childless women are available. If you live in a smaller city or town I would recommend moving to a place with at least one pro sports team.

Obviously, it depends on your circumstances but for me, single moms are generally a bad investment of your time and effort. The exception is for one night stands. Other than that, the opportunity costs are too high when there are plenty of young childless women running around.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Backbreaker nailed it.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Visit the East Coast cities from Washington D.C. to Boston. I call it the independent, strong woman, feminist strip of the U.S.

It consists of:

-Washington D.C.
-Baltimore
-Philadelphia
-New York City
-Boston

Lots and lots of women over 25 without kids. LOTS AND LOTS.

 

[LiveFreeX]

If I was in Texas and still single, I would cross the border to Mexico and date those girls. Young 20 somethings without kids... Why would you even consider someone your own age? You need to get a grip dude, there are tons of super hot women down south of the border waiting to be fvcked by a nice gringo.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Everyone advises to not let a single mother in as anything other than a FB. Where does everyone live that there are a plethora of women without kids? I cant think of a single woman above the age 26 who does not have at least one kid.

Two words: big city.

 

[zekko]

Everyone advises to not let a single mother in as anything other than a FB. Where does everyone live that there are a plethora of women without kids? I cant think of a single woman above the age 26 who does not have at least one kid.

At 39, most of the women I meet are divorced with multiple kids.

Most posters here seem to push the idea that there is a limitless supply of hot women just waiting for you to pick them up (abundance mentality). But you make a good point, most women out there have children. I've been fortunate enough to keep meeting a few here and there that haven't had kids, but they are few and far between. I certainly wouldn't characterize them as abundant.

Of course, another idea is that all men 18-70 are dating the same group of 18-24 year olds, lol, so that solves some of it. I'm a firm believer that older men can date younger girls, but there are hot older women too. At some point the competition for 18-24 year old girls must get awfully thick.

 

[MatureDJ]

I've dated a few single hotties that were around my age, no kids, never been married. There's always a reason why beautiful women in their mid 30's have never been married. It mostly comes down to them being a headache in the end with some big time problems.

Give me the 26 year old with a kid over a 35 year old with nothing.

I'm a single dad so my view may be a little skewed. I was also mostly raised by a step-dad who was awesome.

At my age, a kid isn't going to giver her any red flags. It is what it is.

But hey, if you can constantly pull 20 somehting 9's and 10's with no baggage, then good for you.

I call this the "dented can" syndrome with single, childless women. Like the lonely dented can on the shelf that no one wants because of the possibility of botulism, etc., *attractive* single women of a certain age are generally still single because of some psychological issue.

As for slumming with single mommies, I have always thought that if I were in the state of not having children myself, I would feel like a supplicating beta by dating a single mommy. (Perhaps the respondent here doesn't have so much of a problem with this as he has had a positive relationship with his stepfather.) However, I think that if I did have kids of my own, I would not feel this same way. Ironically, it's almost like being childless restricts me to childless women, as any mommy would de facto make me beta.

 

[Solomon]

Two words: big city.

Yup that or live in a College Town

I live by four big college campuses one is a 20 minute drive (50K, 2:1 girl to guy ratio) and the other ones are 1-1.5 hour plus tons of young women there

Homecoming month is all this month and last and I will be going out to do my rounds it will be fun

:cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

:crackup:

 

[5string]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=178965

Single mommies? Read this.

 

[speed dawg]

Single mommies are great for single guys who want to enjoy being single. You can pump and dump and if you're the type of guy who likes a little social drama, they are good for that too, ha.

Do not meet nor get involved with their kids! Unless you're a single father, in which case maybe you need to marry her since you're damaged goods too.

Next, next and next if you don't think you're ready to handle that yet.

 

[soulforge]

if only i had found this site 1 year ago

i was seeing a single mother for two years... with 3 f@cking kids!!

mate you will always come second best... ALWAYS!!

you will even come second best to her ex, who she had the kids with

stay the f@ck away from these bi@ches... all they want is some afc to come along & rescue them from there own misreble lives!

these woman will f@cking use you...

 

[Warrior74]

Single mommies are great for single guys who want to enjoy being single. You can pump and dump and if you're the type of guy who likes a little social drama, they are good for that too, ha.

Do not meet nor get involved with their kids! Unless you're a single father, in which case maybe you need to marry her since you're damaged goods too.

Next, next and next if you don't think you're ready to handle that yet.

Nah a single father still needs to not date single moms. If you have custody of your kids full time, why do you want a woman who still would put her kids before you and yours? You need a single woman who will grow to love your kid (her maternal instinct kicking in) and who will want to have children with you.