You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Nonesense!Jariel said:I suppose addictions like this are fairly common though, especially with World of Warcraft I'm told.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yeah, I think the clock moves a little too fast even at the normal speed. It takes 2 simhours for the animation of them waking up to load.diplomatic_lies said:Its the weirdest game I've EVER played. This is the Sims in a nutshell:
1) Spend 2 hours trying to wake up
2) Take a 1-hour pee
3) Eat breakfast
4) Raise charisma by talking to bathroom mirror
4) Go to work. Due to high charisma, promotion to President of the United States (perhaps this is how Bush came to power)
5) Come home from work
6) Cook dinner, take 2-hour dump, go to sleep
Repeat.
haha. addict alert.Phrost said:Yeah, I think the clock moves a little too fast even at the normal speed. It takes 2 simhours for the animation of them waking up to load.
Anyway, does any have some of the old 7deadly sims item? I'm looking for the bathroom set in 4colors (which is actually just bookshelves), I reformatted my computer and lost most of my custom items.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dude... agreed 100%diplomatic_lies said:Its the weirdest game I've EVER played. This is the Sims in a nutshell:
1) Spend 2 hours trying to wake up
2) Take a 1-hour pee
3) Eat breakfast
4) Raise charisma by talking to bathroom mirror
4) Go to work. Due to high charisma, promotion to President of the United States (perhaps this is how Bush came to power)
5) Come home from work
6) Cook dinner, take 2-hour dump, go to sleep
Repeat.