"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hey allen, whats up?

got a few suggestions. get rid of this forum and merge it with the anything else forum. lol i'm persistent on that since i suggested it long ago.

tell sociopath and syncmaster to go back and clean up the back pages of their forum since it looks like they have about 20 pages of stuff in there. no sense wasting bandwith on it. they could probably bring it down to 7 useful pages.

tips section, let trickynick clean it up some. its too watered down and spread thin with pseudo marginalized tips. if he went to the back pages and cleaned it up a bit no one would miss the stuff.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'd just like to point out, for those of you who don't know, that this is the first forum I visit and I always read every post in here.

I may not respond to every post but every suggestion is taken into consideration. I'm always looking to make the forum better.

As far as the Tips forum goes, I've been going back and deleting some of the older ones, for a number of reasons... the main reason being that a tip is just not very good. That's why you frequently get broken links in the DJ Bible. But this is a time-consuming process -- I've been working on it for a couple months -- and I'm only up to the end of July. Anything posted before the end of July is at least okay.
 
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