"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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silly *****

pyros

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Hello.

This is not about any girl I like but it is about a stupid silly woman's behaviour.
So I met a new group of ppl in my salsa academy. They are around 12 ppl (three cute girls included). Some days ago the 'leader' of the group (a guy lets call him John) just invited me to a party they were going, so I went there, had some fun, etc.

BUT, in this group there is this woman who's around 36 but tries to look like 25 (lets call her Sarah). First time I talked to this group I also tried to talk to Sarah, but she was not receptive.
Some days later I bumped into John in a club. He was with this ***** Sarah plus another girl. We had a smalll conversation, and again this stupid woman was not very nice towards me; I danced a bit with the other girl, and asked Sarah if she wanted to danced and she refused, so I thought: **** it.

So last night John invited me to another party but since he was not going to be there he gave me this *****es's number (Sarah), because he said that he normally arranges everything but when he cant, Sarah takes his place.

Later at night I texted Sarah to ask her about the time, and some other minor details. She replied, and then I saw her whatsapp's profile picture (she was on her knees at the beach, topless, but giving you the butt, so you could only see her bottom and her back) so I made a little joke:
Sarah: so you have to be at 01:00 at X place
me: who is this?
Sarah: its sarah! you texted me before
me: oh yes, I could not recognize your butt.
(no response)

Here it comes the great part of the story. So at 01:40 I arrived to the club but it was damn difficult to get to the parking lot, there was no obvious entry! I checked on the internet but there was no info about where the **** was the main entrance to the parking lot. So I texted Sarah asking her to give me some directions. This ****ing ***** did not reply! And I could see she read my whatsapp messages!
I waited 20 mins, tried to find the entrance but since I could not find it, I just left and went home.


****ING STUPID *****! why the heck did she ignore me like that?
what do you think?
she is really rude and evil. Im thinking that Im gonna explain all this to John, but since they are friends he may not believe me and trust the retarded witch.
 

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TheException

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she is really rude and evil.

what do you think?


Not really pal. Your taking sh1t wayyyyy tooooo seriously. A woman doesnt flirt with you? So shes a b1tch. Shes at the club partying and doesnt have time to direct your a$$ to the parking lot? Oh shes certainly a b1tch.

Listen pal, you shouldnt take it so serious. Who cares if a woman doesnt want to talk to you...her loss.
 
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