Signs of High Quality = Signs of Low Interest

[Tenacity]

Pandora,

Right. I will have chicks reject me today for being too "arrogant". Like what does that even mean lol? I will have a chick tell me to "lose my number as you only care about yourself and your job!" Isn't that WTF I'm supposed to be doing lol?

Once you get yourself together and right, then just go out and speak to as many girls as possible, IN PERSON first and then you can develop some online game later. But the online game won't work unless the in person stuff is down first. From just talking to a BUNCH of women all the time, you will relax and just have a natural flow of conversation, confidence, etc. because shyt you do this all the time and pretty much know what to expect.

My issue with women today isn't the basic dating and sexing stuff, it's the long term relationship shyt and how to overcome the Court Systems, messed up child support laws, etc.

 

[rugby11]

One thing i have noticed is that When i get rejected by a women she is at a higher class than i am. But i haven't learned how to speak to women well. I need more practiced getting rejected. I enjoy going to dances a lot and i have noticed that many women will never make the first move. I am trying to finish school and get in a place where i can be more self reliant.

 

[jc_80]

Also I learned a long time ago that early signs of high interest equals low quality. At first you're thinking man this chick really likes me lol then you realize there's no way you can keep her IL that high, and the minute life interferes with her fantasy her IL waivers back and forth while gradually plummeting because you're a normal person who has become disappointing because you can't satisfy her needy behavior and solve her personal problems because she can't admit to herself that only she can fix them.

Best to have a chick whose IL is positive at first but holds back and controls her IL so that you can raise it by showing her who you really are. This way you know she likes you more as she learns you.