"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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thefonz

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I'm kinda pissed right now.....I sliced my left ring finger tendon 2 weeks ago on a piece a shattered glass and now I can't workout for 10 weeks...........I was in lab class pushing a glass tube into a pump and the glass broke as I squeezed it cutting my hand up badly and slicing my ring finger through the tendon. It recoiled down to mid hand and I had to get surgery a week ago to repair it, now my forearm is in a cast and I CAN"T DO ****.......man I'd give anything to do a back/bi workout. What should I do to minimize muscle lose while I'm out?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You shouldn't do anything until you're fully healed (and with your arm out of action, there's not much you can do anyway). Accept the muscle loss, it won't be that much and it'll come back way quicker than it took to grow in the first place (muscle memory). Don't sweat it, just let yourself heal.

Best wishes for a speedy recovery too.
 

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thnx alex, I should retain my 'muscle memory' for I get back into it ..........My basic plan is to stay on a protien and carb diet but lower my calories and carbs since i'm not gonna be as active. I'm also drinking lots of water to keep the circulation flowing, hopefully it'll slow down lean body mass deterioration and just keep doing PT on my hand every hour like I was told to.
 
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