"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shyryder’s Bulking Journal

ShyRyder

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Oct 19
Back/Biceps
Day 10

Deadlifts
80lbs x 6 reps
90lbs x 6 reps

Seated Cable rows
60lbs x 6 reps
60lbs x 6 reps
added this exercise and its pretty good

Bent over 2arm Row
75lbs x 6 reps
80lbs x 6 reps

Hammer Curl
20lbs(e) x 6 reps
25lbs(e) x 6 reps (bad form struggled a bit)

Barbell Curl
20lbs x 6 reps
25lbs x 6 reps

Seated Calf’s Inward
100lbs x 10 reps
110lbs x 10 reps

Standing Calf’s ******d
250lbs x 10 reps
260lbs x 10 reps
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oct 21
Chest/Triceps

DB Press
60lbs(e) x 6 reps
65lbs x 6 reps

70lbs x 3 reps
lifted it on my own with out a spotter. It was fun, I was hyping myself up like I had a major game or something

DB Press Decline
30lbs x 6 reps
35lbs x 6 reps

Triceps dips
6 reps
5 reps

DB Shurgs
60lbs x 6 reps
50lbs x 6 reps
This exercise is pretty difficult when you try and go slow. I may or may not keep it

Pull ups wide grip
4reps
3reps
3reps
could not get my chin over bar consistently. I’m wondering if my strength will increase the more I try even is I don’t get them full at first.
 

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Oct 26
Legs/Shoulders
Day 12

Barbbell Squat
150lbs x 6 reps (bad from)
160lbs x 6 reps (made sure my heels where at tip of piece of wood= better form)
170lbs x 6 reps (Ok form didn’t feel like I went down all the way)

Leg Press
360lbs x 6 reps
410lbs x 6 reps

Dumbbell Lunges
70lbs x 6 reps
80lbs x 4 reps

Arnold Press
30lbs x 6reps
35lbs x reps

DB Seated Military Press
30lbs x 6 reps
40lbs x 6 reps

Abs Decline Reverse Crunch
10reps 3 sets

Weight =158

My lifts are increasing but my weight isn’t. My eating habits are not as good as they should be. The veggie thing is pretty hard to pull off. I think I’m going to make tuna in a can my bread and butter. Also I do a lot of cardio in my martial arts class so that can’t be helping either. But I’m going to do it no matter what it takes.
 

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Shlt I just weight myself at the gym I’m 163 on an empty stomach too. Gaining isn’t that hard at all lift more eat more equals more weight. I slacked a little but now I have motivation to continue the pressure.

+ a few days at gym

Back/Biceps
Around Day 16
Nov 18
Deadlifts
85lbs x 6 reps
90lbs x 6 reps(with 10lbs barbell)
90lbs x 6 reps

Seated Cable Rows
80lbs x 6 reps
90lbs x 6 reps

Bent Over 2 hand Rows
90lbs x 6 reps
95lbs x 6 reps

Hammer Curl
25lbs(e) x 6 reps 2 sets

Barbell Curl
25lbs x 6 reps 2 sets
 

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+ a few days at gym

Back/Biceps
NOv 28
Day 19


stiff Deadlifts (barbell)
90lbs x 7reps 2 sets
110lbs x 7 reps

Seated Cable Rows
90lbs x 6 reps
100lbs x 6 reps

Bent over 2 hand rows
95lbs x 6 reps
100lbs x 6 reps

Hammer Curl
20lbs x 6 reps
25lbs x 6 reps(form could be better)

Barbell Curl
30lbs x 6 reps 2 sets
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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your leg press going all the way down? I'm surprised at 410 (5 plates / side??) for 6 yet a 170 lb squat, and a 100 lb deadlift.

Looks to me like your orders of business are:

a) throw weight on the deadlift bar!!!

b) go all the way down on the leg press!
 

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yah that's what im going to do, put more weight on my deadlifts i kept it down cause hurt my back a while back but now everything is good. Sometimes i cheat on leg press and not go all the way but mostly i do.
 
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