Ok so I was talking to this girl for about 3 days before I met her. She's a friend of a friend-girl. It started out as me just f*cking around with her phone, sending people txts and getting pics of them for no reason. This girl was kinda cute though. We ended up hanging out at our mutual friends house.
Everyone is watching a movie downstairs (5 people) she txts me "Let's go upstairs and play (some video game)" I thought right away she just wanted to be alone with me, sounds right?
So I walk upstairs and then txt her to come up. My friend calls right after I txt her and completely gets rid of my nervousness because he's chill. So I look at her, then say to the person on the phone "well I'm in the middle of something and it's kinda important, so I'll call you back." I laughed a little to myself, thought that wasn't bad
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Here's how it went ...
Me: "Ok let's go" *takes her hand and goes toward bedroom*
H: "I'm ok here"
Me: "Cmon (mutal friends parents') will be home soon."
H: "Oh"
Me: "So we doing this or not?"
H: "I don't know."
Me: "Let's go."
H: "Really I'm ok here" (standing at top of stairs)
M: "How nervous are you? Between 1 and 10?"
H: "Like 70 lol"
Me: "Guess I'm doing a good job then huh?"
H: "I'm not sure."
Me: "So what are you doing then?"
H: "Thinking."
So this goes on for roughly 10-20 minutes, then girls parents get home and we get out and go downstairs quick.
I got a text from her at somewhere near 5 am to sneak out with her because she regretted not doing anything "so much." I was asleep so nothing happened.
The next morning, after she sleeps over: I walk upstairs, sit down on the bed and just lay there. She comes up and sits on the bed next to me and doesn't say anything.
Here's what happened ...
Me: "What?"
H: "Nothing"
Me: "Do you want something?"
H: "No I'm just sitting here ..."
*silence* (seeing what she would do)
Me: "So is this where I come on to you and you tell me you're thinking again?"
H: "I'm not sure" *laughs*
Me: "Alright let's go .." *gets up and walks toward door*
H: "What? Where?"
Me: "Downstairs now."
H: "I'll be down."
I leave and walk downstairs where we pick up ... she comes down right after me and sits on a chair to the side of the couch I was sitting on.
Me: "Come sit over here."
H: "No I'm ok right here."
Me: "I'm lost .. what are you doing?"
H: "Sitting here."
Me: "Cmon .." *gets up and takes her hands*
H: "No really I'm ok here"
Me: "Do you wanna do anything or not? If you don't then I'll go I don't care."
H: "I .. maybe .. I don't really know."
Eventually she moves next to me on the couch
Me: "You might wanna try looking at me ... "
H: "I'm looking at this wall .. it's cool."
Me: "Ok .."
(f*cking weird)
Eventually we kiss for a millisecond, she says it's weird or something and she doesn't know how to do it right. Same thing happens again, same length, and she stops and says something along the same lines.
Later, after she leaves, I get a text saying she'd of rather given me head than made out with me because she thinks kissing is "funny" or something of that sort. Keep in mind this chick hasn't done sh*t ever. I know for a fact.
TL;DR - read bold stuff and advice me
What do I do to counter this or whatever? I think it's called last minute resistance? She said I should keep in touch with her so we could hang sometime and "stuff." I'm not sure what to do.
Everyone is watching a movie downstairs (5 people) she txts me "Let's go upstairs and play (some video game)" I thought right away she just wanted to be alone with me, sounds right?
So I walk upstairs and then txt her to come up. My friend calls right after I txt her and completely gets rid of my nervousness because he's chill. So I look at her, then say to the person on the phone "well I'm in the middle of something and it's kinda important, so I'll call you back." I laughed a little to myself, thought that wasn't bad
.Here's how it went ...
Me: "Ok let's go" *takes her hand and goes toward bedroom*
H: "I'm ok here"
Me: "Cmon (mutal friends parents') will be home soon."
H: "Oh"
Me: "So we doing this or not?"
H: "I don't know."
Me: "Let's go."
H: "Really I'm ok here" (standing at top of stairs)
M: "How nervous are you? Between 1 and 10?"
H: "Like 70 lol"
Me: "Guess I'm doing a good job then huh?"
H: "I'm not sure."
Me: "So what are you doing then?"
H: "Thinking."
So this goes on for roughly 10-20 minutes, then girls parents get home and we get out and go downstairs quick.
I got a text from her at somewhere near 5 am to sneak out with her because she regretted not doing anything "so much." I was asleep so nothing happened.
The next morning, after she sleeps over: I walk upstairs, sit down on the bed and just lay there. She comes up and sits on the bed next to me and doesn't say anything.
Here's what happened ...
Me: "What?"
H: "Nothing"
Me: "Do you want something?"
H: "No I'm just sitting here ..."
*silence* (seeing what she would do)
Me: "So is this where I come on to you and you tell me you're thinking again?"
H: "I'm not sure" *laughs*
Me: "Alright let's go .." *gets up and walks toward door*
H: "What? Where?"
Me: "Downstairs now."
H: "I'll be down."
I leave and walk downstairs where we pick up ... she comes down right after me and sits on a chair to the side of the couch I was sitting on.
Me: "Come sit over here."
H: "No I'm ok right here."
Me: "I'm lost .. what are you doing?"
H: "Sitting here."
Me: "Cmon .." *gets up and takes her hands*
H: "No really I'm ok here"
Me: "Do you wanna do anything or not? If you don't then I'll go I don't care."
H: "I .. maybe .. I don't really know."
Eventually she moves next to me on the couch
Me: "You might wanna try looking at me ... "
H: "I'm looking at this wall .. it's cool."
Me: "Ok .."
(f*cking weird)
Eventually we kiss for a millisecond, she says it's weird or something and she doesn't know how to do it right. Same thing happens again, same length, and she stops and says something along the same lines.
Later, after she leaves, I get a text saying she'd of rather given me head than made out with me because she thinks kissing is "funny" or something of that sort. Keep in mind this chick hasn't done sh*t ever. I know for a fact.
TL;DR - read bold stuff and advice me
What do I do to counter this or whatever? I think it's called last minute resistance? She said I should keep in touch with her so we could hang sometime and "stuff." I'm not sure what to do.