Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
What is the best way to deal with shy girls? This girl I've been talking to is really shy and I wanna know the best way to attack.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Shy Girls
- Thread starter Paintballguy
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
from tyler durden: If you see she is reserved and kind of in the background say: " I bet sometimes guys think your a bit**, but I know better, you just like to get to know people before you start to really open up" or something like that. Use some cold reading techniques.
BGMan
Master Don Juan
What seems to work for me is to talk to them like they're a good friend I haven't seen in a while. (Don't misconstrue this as being a wuss... I act alpha with every girl!)
BGMan
BGMan
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
use the search feature moron.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.