"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shy Girls During Day Game

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I'm working more on daygame nowadays, why not? I want the all around skills, babay!

I'm getting some good IOI's: these girls are staring and smiling and blushing. But the younger ones, 18 or 19, are not good at conversation. They give one word answers and tend not to contribute much.

How can I get these girls to loosen up a bit? These girls are hot!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's not so much age: it's an issue of: the girls are giving body language IOI's such as: blushing, staring and smiling: but are too shy to SAY anything, at least beyond one word at a time. It's like they're scared to mess it up, or don't know what to do.
 
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Any good tips would b much appreciated. cuz I have a similar problem (more towards being shy not young).
 
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guytime said:
It's not so much age: it's an issue of: the girls are giving body language IOI's such as: blushing, staring and smiling: but are too shy to SAY anything, at least beyond one word at a time. It's like they're scared to mess it up, or don't know what to do.
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No worries there. You need to step up and LEAD them. Young woman are socially unskilled with young men. Someone has to go first - how about you .
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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