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Should you post pics of your car on OLD depending on site?

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So a coworker who likes my car lol said I should post pics of it on OLD and it would attract ladies. I own a Mustang GT all tinted out with fancy rims and that.

Is this true? I never thought of this. I also assume it depends on age you're targeting and the type of site.

I would think eHarmony and Match that would be a bad idea due to older and more professional women.

Would that be a better idea to use on the low end sites like POF, OKC and Tinder?

Remember, I'm 35 but I'm wanting to target 20 to 27 year olds currently.
 

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It will turn some off, others will like it.

To attract both parties, make sure you are posing with the car and don't show the entire car so the focus is on you, not the car.
I got to wash and wax it first. Looking pretty dirty right now. I got pics of my old Corvette but that was when I was 18, not that I look a lot different now lol.
 

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I would never show my vehicle.

You will impress them more with photos reflecting mainly your eyes and smile and passion. That combined with the plain outdoors and you're golden. That is all you need.

If you work out and you have the body to back it up then post a photo of yourself working out but keep your shirt on. One selfie max, in my opinion. 6 photos total is what I've had for years.
What about if you own a higher end car? One that cost 60k or more? Is that going to attract women digging for gold?

I've read some "experts" on these sites saying you shouldn't smile in your profile pics. wtf.
 

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They are stupid.

Women will think you have bad teeth if you never seem to be smiling in any of your pictures.
I agree. I might sometimes use my main profile pic and have a pic where my smile isn't showing but I'm still smiling and my other pics show my teeth.

I guess that's fine if you're using the trash sites like Tinder or POF and OKC but stuff like Eharmony and Match I would show your smile. They might also think you're a nutcase or something too if you don't smile.

I also change my profile pic depending on age group I'm messaging too. If I'm messaging 20-29 year olds I use one that I look younger in and shaved for example. Granted lately I see hardly any of them on the sites. I'm a young kick now and can't find many as of late :(
 

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Hey biggoal. Ive noticed a lot of your posts talk about OLD. It sounds like you are using that at the exclusion of meeting girls in real life.

I did the same thing after my separation/divorce.

What ive found is that i attract and get higher quality girls in real life. I also found that id use old as a crutch and would not put in the effort to meet girls otherwise.
 

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lol bragging about a mustang. nah bro that aint it chief.


if post up a pic in a new merc or or bmw or something exotic. let the focus of the picture be your favorite beverage or some **** but let the benz emblem peak out in the background lol. gotta sneak brag bro.
 

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lol bragging about a mustang. nah bro that aint it chief.


if post up a pic in a new merc or or bmw or something exotic. let the focus of the picture be your favorite beverage or some **** but let the benz emblem peak out in the background lol. gotta sneak brag bro.
I dont want a BMW unless it's a fast one like the m3 or Mercedes Amg lol.

What about being fake? I mean like wear nice clothes on a date and wear your Rolex? Does that help wearing a 6k watch? Dress and look rich but just dont have 150k sitting in your checking account. Have all the same toys and stuff as a rich guy but just a smaller bank account.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I dont want a BMW unless it's a fast one like the m3 or Mercedes Amg lol.

What about being fake? I mean like wear nice clothes on a date and wear your Rolex? Does that help wearing a 6k watch? Dress and look rich but just dont have 150k sitting in your checking account. Have all the same toys and stuff as a rich guy but just a smaller bank account.
Its all perception dude. Ive had chicks jock my nuts because i had a coach wallet. The illusion of wealth works wonders on these superficial females. They like designer anything. It also shows you are successful. U dont want to overdo it tho like i said...sneak brag
 

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Its all perception dude. Ive had chicks jock my nuts because i had a coach wallet. The illusion of wealth works wonders on these superficial females. They like designer anything. It also shows you are successful. U dont want to overdo it tho like i said...sneak brag
I agree these girls these days are all materialistic. Not a pot to p*ss in but still buy a $500 purse somehow. Heck at the market I work at one of the ladies who owns a large perfume booth complains about not having the money to order stuff in the summer when it's slow but somehow buys a $1000 handbag for herself and is in tears about not having money to keep her shelves properly stocked yet buys expensive stuff for herself instead of properly running the business.

These clothing and wallet, purse designers and companies sure have these women figured out right though lol. Charge uber high markups on stuff and women will buy it up.
 

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I would leave the pic out. If you own a Mustang just mention you're a Mustang or sports car lover in your profile then if they bring it up during conversation you can expound on owning one, or whatever. A pic of a car on your profile will do nothing to attract a woman worth having.
 

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Old in general last 3 years seems to have really gone downhill. Less quality profiles, more fake profiles, lack of selection, and overall more flakey women. What is going on? People used to say it was a good way to meet people but now I hardly hear any stories about anything serious coming from old.
 

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What about if you own a higher end car? One that cost 60k or more? Is that going to attract women digging for gold?

I've read some "experts" on these sites saying you shouldn't smile in your profile pics. wtf.
Why dont you stop trying to be a try hard and work on yourself if you have to use props to get a woman's attention.

Work on yourself. If you do use a car to get a woman's attention, how tf are you going to keep her around if that is what got her attention?
 

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To know for sure, get your pics rated. Problem solved. Evidently some of you have never had a car that draws attention. I've got one that people will stand next to and take selfies with.
 
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