"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should you ever buy a girl a drink?

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Pugnacio said:
I would say by just your responses you're pretty good with the ladies so ur not exactly desperate. One tip of advice I think would be good (maybe i'm wrong) - don't sit there arguing with her because that shows weakness and that you actually DO care what she thinks. I am not saying buy her a drink - don't. Instead, switch the subject to something else that may spark her interest because you've already shown her that you are a Don Juan and don't need her.

Check out my post and tell me if u have any advice.
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He doesn't need to change subjects to spark interest in a woman that sole purpose was to have him to buy her a drink (and in the process cuck blocked him too). In fact, he should have ignored her. Smiled at her. And tell her, "I already told you...I'm not going to buy you a drink. Now, if you excuse me...I would like to relax a little. Thanks."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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By the way...you handled the situation very very well.
 
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Once I responded to that by saying.

"No, you'll just take your pretty face, and walk away with my drink"

After that she smiled and laughed and we continued talking at the bar. I then walked away, I didn't try for anything as I was in with another girl.

I would never buy a girl a drink. What's the point? She either likes you or she doesn't, a drink isn't going to chage that.
 
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In some cases it's okay to buy a girl a drink. When they overtly ask like this girl did to you in a night club (where drinks can be between 7-12 dollars a pop) then you did the right thing standing your ground. Especially since you had intrest coming from another girl who was present in the club. There are many times when a girl will offer to buy you a drink if her IL is high enough or she's trying to GHB you and take your wallet later on...but that's a different story. I view girls openly asking you to open your wallet after the first few minutes as a gauge to see how generous you are with your cash and that's not a good thing beause generosity with strangers = sucker, chump. Later she'll be asking you to buy her brekfast the same night! Screw that noise! Props on your decison and good judgement.
 
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