Should you apologise for hurting a girl??

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Ragin_Asian

Senior Don Juan

Dec 1, 2004

Although its her past experience I shoulda been more sensitive to her. That the mistake I do sometimes when I risk f*cking up by trying to improve my game...the whole comfort zone thing...

Gotta tone down sometimes and be really aware what works with different girls. I shoulda been more careful yet not be over cautious as an AFC would. Walking away DOES help sometimes.

I'll keep you guys update...

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.