Should we be making all the effort? A misunderstanding

[ManUnited01]

Referring to my last post "Should we be making all the effort?" I asked my fellow DJ's whether guys should be making all the effort to contact and arrange dates with women, and that I felt some reciprocation from our female counterparts was due.

I totally agree that men should make all the effort with regards to initial contact, getting to know the girl and asking her out etc. However my initial question was with regards to being in an exclusive relationship with a woman, not with women we have just met.

Would very much like to hear your views.

 

[mrRuckus]

Referring to my last post "Should we be making all the effort?" I asked my fellow DJ's whether guys should be making all the effort to contact and arrange dates with women

nope

 

[flexion_]

No we shouldn't be making all the effort in that situation.

 

[DonJuanForever]

What do you mean making all the effort? You mean doing the approach, setting the date, always calling, etc, etc?

If the girl is attracted to you, you won't be making all the effort. If the girl is not, you will have to. If the girl is attracted to you, but she has other dudes or a boy friend on the side, she might want to make more effort but can't.

My advise, sarge single women, get them attracted to you, and be a challenge. What I mean is, have a life. Everytime she calls and says let's go to the mall you don't have to be available all the time. Most guys call this being a challenge, but I say, don't fake it, actually have something else more important going on for yourself.
Get it?