Reyaj
Master Don Juan
She has the chronic type and apparently there's been some studies that it could spread through sex.
She is hot as hell though... Need advice!
She is hot as hell though... Need advice!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Should I sleep with a girl who has Lyme's Disease?
- Thread starter Reyaj
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If the Lyme Dime asks you if you want to have sex say: Yes Deer.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
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user43770
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Sounds like she ticks all the right boxes
Augustus_McCrae
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Just Doe nt go down on her...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
RickTheToad
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You should be ok.
You Can't Catch Lyme Disease From Sex
Consumer Reports shares myths abound about how this common tick-borne illness can and can't be spread. Can you get Lyme disease from sex? We separate fact from fiction.
www.consumerreports.org
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Thanks, I've seen mixed reports about whether you could catch it or not via sex. She is super hot...
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
They just keep getting better
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
perfect
honeyshark
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Lyme disease is not thought to be communicable from human to human. Just Google it. Chronic lyme disease is probably an auto immune response, also not communicable.