"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I show jealousy ?

mikee

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Here's the thing, there's the girl I want to bone, and recently she told me some girl from her school was talking **** about her because she thought the girl I'm interested in liked her boyfriend.
Even though I don't feel jealous or anything, I felt like asking her if she did like that guy, just for the sake of showing some jealousy.
However I decided to go the DJ way and pretended I didn't care about that by laughing.

I don't want to show too much interest, and showing jealousy wouldn't help, but I really really don't want to end up in the friends zone.

So next time she talks me about a guy, should I show some jealousy, or at least interest in the matter ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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619joe

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Um noo.

Since when was showing jealousy ever a good method?Just dont man.The way I see it,dont look as the friend zone,as a friend zone.Act as if there is no friend zone ,thats what i do
 

BlakeW5

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Showing jealousy won't keep you out of the friend zone, it'll just hurt you. Showing interest and escalating will.

NEVER be jealous. If a chick finds out she can make you jealous she'll just use it against you.
 
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