"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should I progress? - Vote time

Would you date a woman with a child? (The child is a different ethnic background than you)

  • Yes. If you're both happy what does that matter?

    Votes: 1 50.0%
  • No

    Votes: 1 50.0%
  • Maybe

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    2

phil2015

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Hi

I've met a girl recently, who we have both clicked with eachother very well and she is at the point where she wishes to get serious.

Everything fantastic, and the girl has a beautiful little girl aged 4. As an aside I have 2 children, both 6 (twins) from a previous relationship. Me and currently lady are both white, and her ex was Bangladeshi origin so her child is a different colour than us both.

I would like to progress the relationship with her, but she has warned me that she has suffered prejudice from other people due to the colour of her child. I think this is unfair myself and wondered what anyone else would think of this.

I'm non-judgmental either way, feel free to comment, vote, PM or flame me as necessary. Every response valid

What would you guys of Sosuave do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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