"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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should i have this attitude.

killbill

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Well today I as talking to a friend. And anyways we were talking

about girls. and I told the dude that I can get any women I

wanted to. He thought I was crazy, he said I dont think so

because and he just came up with some bull shiit answer. so I

was wondering is it a good attitude to have saying that you

can get any chick you want?

also is that what a dj would say also?


killbill
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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From my experience, the guys who say they can "get any girl" spend their days sitting on their asses making excuses.

Words = meaningless.

Mic is right, its all about silent confidence and results. Results make people talk, and then you don't have to tell them you can get every girl, they know it!
 

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But can you get any girl?

If I walked down the street with you, pointed out 10 random girls, could you get laid with them?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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Yeah its a great attitude to have.........If its true. If it is not true then you are lame to say it.
 
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