"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I go to the local bar alone and post an update in one hour?

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All my friends are going to a different city tonight, and I have to stay at home because of work. Should I go loner-style to the local bar and try to score some and post the results here in one hour?

I feel like a looser going to a bar alone. I just have to pretend to be waiting for someone I guess :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You dont think you'll know anyone at your LOCAL bar? If not, make some new friends.
 
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Go and get some hot chicks!
 
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FIELD REPORT:

I went to the bar alone feeling like a loner, which I was he he!

I was almost sober so I went to the bar to buy a beer, and a few drunk ass dudes started talking incoherent nonsense to me, so I talked with them so it looked like I had some friends. Lucky :) I still felt like a looser, so I said to this one drunk guy "lets get some chicks" and he went over to a table with a HB5 and a HB6.5.

He was so drunk they just shaked their heads, and I started talking with the HB6.5 apologizing for my drunk "friend". I got good convo and I got her number. HB5 and 6.5 were going home, so I went to the piano and just stood there. Along comes HB Chubby and HB MEGAChubby. They were going to a after party and I tagged along.

Me and HB Chubby ended up on the couch, and I got a very good BJ.

(Chubby girls are expert c0ckeaters because they are so hungry always he he!)


So to recap, no big success. I will tro to meet HB 6.5 again when I have the time.

Cheers! :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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See? Obviously its ok to go the bar alone. Now you dont even have to worry about your friends giving you shyt for hooking up with the fatty!
 
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horaholic said:
See? Obviously its ok to go the bar alone. Now you dont even have to worry about your friends giving you shyt for hooking up with the fatty!
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That is one of the best kept secrets of going out alone. You have nobody to judge you. If you have a bad night or you hook up with a girl that you don't want your friends to know about, nobody is the wiser. I feel more self-conscious with a wingman. I feel like I have to perform under pressure. Alone, I can be myself and not give a sh*t.
 
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