This is my old thread.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153024
I am 20, she is 29. She broke up with me about 3 weeks ago, and now I have finally decided to move on after having a conversation with my dad as of today.
Anyway we were having a conversation last night and I could not help but wait for her to contact me so I decided to talk to message her via aim after not talking to her for 2 weeks to see how she is doing. I feel as if society, her friends, her family have convinced her and herself to "move on." She basically cut me off. I finally realized it after asking her out numerous times and her saying the same as usual, "You have fun." or "I'm busy" Last night I was pretty sad(until I had a talk with my old man)
me: anyways
me: you didnt answer my question
her: what question?
me: scroll up
her: i don't think i can beat u
her: haha
me: nah
her: not that one
her: tennis
her: rite?
me: nope
her: what
me: game over
me: what are you doing for haloween?
her: i have to ask my frd
me: hmm let me know
me: maybe ill stop by or something
me: i miss partying with the girl who always took advantage of me at the club
her: it was b4, haha
her: have fun
her: moo moo
The thing that my dad made me realize today is that I helped her get well with her knee. Without me taking her to see a kung fu therapist that does physical therapy with pressure points, she wouldn't of been walking to this day because of her meniscous tear in her knee. The doctor told her that the x-ray wasn't even hers, and that they were trying to convince her to get surgery(fraud). If she had done surgery, she wouldn't of been able to walka gain because her body is not strong enough as the current condition to heal. My dad told me she finally found a job after being unemployed for the last couple of months, all because I recommended her, I spent time and took her, to see this kung fu therapist because she was not able to drive at the current condition she was in.
I was talking to my dad today, and I broke down crying because I was so sad. And he taught me something that I WILL NEVER FORGET. He said, "Never love a woman, who's not going to love you back, that will just cause you to suffer." One more that I will always remember that he said too, "Don't contact her, don't see her, cut her off to let HER KNOW that you moved on, if you let her see that you are having a great time without her, she will be crawling back." And one more that opened my eyes REAL big, "Just move on, if you think about the longrun it will be even worse, you can't hold her hand forever along the way, be dominant and she will be aware that you are not the one to be f*cking around with."
I'm glad I had a talk with my dad today, he told me not to worry, theres plenty of girls out there. Before my mother, he said he had over 10 girlfriends. I was surprised the knowledge he knew.
Well the question is: We were talking last night, and she wants her Wii back, should I give it back to her? I posted in this section(Mature man) because I want to know what an older man would do because she is 29, and I am only 20. The wii was given to her by some random AFC that liked her, but she brought it over and gave it to me to play with because she felt as if she did not deserve it. She asked me to pick it up, and I said yeah. I asked my dad and he said, "Mail it to her, and that's it, move on, don't even let her comeover" Thanks in advanced guys, just wanted some input
This is the conversation we ended with last night.
her: we are always good friend
me: "theres no such things as friend"
me: but yeah we'll always be good friends
me: well
me: i'm going to bed now
me: tired from yesterday
her: wat?
her: no such things as frd?
her: =P
me: yup that's your corny line
her: haha
her: why so tired?
her: too much xxx
her: hehe
me: jeez there you go again
me: always thinking im bad
her: haha
me: im innocent
her: condom in the car
her: duh
her: bad boy boy
I signed off right after...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153024
I am 20, she is 29. She broke up with me about 3 weeks ago, and now I have finally decided to move on after having a conversation with my dad as of today.
Anyway we were having a conversation last night and I could not help but wait for her to contact me so I decided to talk to message her via aim after not talking to her for 2 weeks to see how she is doing. I feel as if society, her friends, her family have convinced her and herself to "move on." She basically cut me off. I finally realized it after asking her out numerous times and her saying the same as usual, "You have fun." or "I'm busy" Last night I was pretty sad(until I had a talk with my old man)
me: anyways
me: you didnt answer my question
her: what question?
me: scroll up
her: i don't think i can beat u
her: haha
me: nah
her: not that one
her: tennis
her: rite?
me: nope
her: what
me: game over
me: what are you doing for haloween?
her: i have to ask my frd
me: hmm let me know
me: maybe ill stop by or something
me: i miss partying with the girl who always took advantage of me at the club
her: it was b4, haha
her: have fun
her: moo moo
The thing that my dad made me realize today is that I helped her get well with her knee. Without me taking her to see a kung fu therapist that does physical therapy with pressure points, she wouldn't of been walking to this day because of her meniscous tear in her knee. The doctor told her that the x-ray wasn't even hers, and that they were trying to convince her to get surgery(fraud). If she had done surgery, she wouldn't of been able to walka gain because her body is not strong enough as the current condition to heal. My dad told me she finally found a job after being unemployed for the last couple of months, all because I recommended her, I spent time and took her, to see this kung fu therapist because she was not able to drive at the current condition she was in.
I was talking to my dad today, and I broke down crying because I was so sad. And he taught me something that I WILL NEVER FORGET. He said, "Never love a woman, who's not going to love you back, that will just cause you to suffer." One more that I will always remember that he said too, "Don't contact her, don't see her, cut her off to let HER KNOW that you moved on, if you let her see that you are having a great time without her, she will be crawling back." And one more that opened my eyes REAL big, "Just move on, if you think about the longrun it will be even worse, you can't hold her hand forever along the way, be dominant and she will be aware that you are not the one to be f*cking around with."
I'm glad I had a talk with my dad today, he told me not to worry, theres plenty of girls out there. Before my mother, he said he had over 10 girlfriends. I was surprised the knowledge he knew.
Well the question is: We were talking last night, and she wants her Wii back, should I give it back to her? I posted in this section(Mature man) because I want to know what an older man would do because she is 29, and I am only 20. The wii was given to her by some random AFC that liked her, but she brought it over and gave it to me to play with because she felt as if she did not deserve it. She asked me to pick it up, and I said yeah. I asked my dad and he said, "Mail it to her, and that's it, move on, don't even let her comeover" Thanks in advanced guys, just wanted some input
This is the conversation we ended with last night.
her: we are always good friend
me: "theres no such things as friend"
me: but yeah we'll always be good friends
me: well
me: i'm going to bed now
me: tired from yesterday
her: wat?
her: no such things as frd?
her: =P
me: yup that's your corny line
her: haha
her: why so tired?
her: too much xxx
her: hehe
me: jeez there you go again
me: always thinking im bad
her: haha
me: im innocent
her: condom in the car
her: duh
her: bad boy boy
I signed off right after...
Time to go play some tennis!