"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I continue to post advice on Sosuave?

What should I do?

  • Continue to give advice and hope that one day I can save a clueless AFC?

    Votes: 22 52.4%
  • Stop posting advice, and stop caring about inexperienced guys who need help

    Votes: 20 47.6%

  • Total voters
    42

ThunderMaverick

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The purpose of this thread is dumb and 90% of the content in it is dumb.


Lock?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just a Shot Away said:
You're still confusing appearance with looks? You have a real problem with reading comprehension. I've been explaining this very simple concept to you for months.
SEMANTICS - what a feminine way to argue........you KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT when I say "looks", don't play stupid.
 

Just a Shot Away

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Rescue Mission said:
SEMANTICS - what a feminine way to argue........you KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT when I say "looks", don't play stupid.
You equate femininity with logic and reason. Very peculiar, man. I was talking to Falcon25 about confusing appearance with looks. As far as I know, you're a strict "You can't get girls without a certain amount of facial symmetry" guy. Falcon seems to be a looks/appearance hybrid bloviator.


GetOveIT said:
Please dont turn this thread into another Looks matter/dont matter.
Since the "advice" that Rescue Mission is asking whether or not he should continue to spread is "be good-looking", this thread is a looks matter thread by association.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
You equate femininity with logic and reason. Very peculiar, man. I was talking to Falcon25 about confusing appearance with looks. As far as I know, you're a strict "You can't get girls without a certain amount of facial symmetry" guy. Falcon seems to be a looks/appearance hybrid bloviator.
You're annoying, no one gives a sh1t about what you say. Leave this house and never darken these towels again!
 

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CaptainJ said:
You're annoying, no one gives a sh1t about what you say. Leave this house and never darken these towels again!
Yeah, he is the most annoying dude here. No wonder he struggles with chicks. They probably listen two minutes to this dude and know he is a boring fuvk.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Credos said:
Stop asking for acceptance and craving for attention.

You know the worth of your own posts and if you want to stop posting, then stop posting, but don't make a fvcking poll about it... Make up your own mind instead of letting others make your decisions...

In the end, you were going to make your own decision anyway... No need to make a scene about it.
Amen! Attention *****!
 

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Good god. Rescue Mission works harder for male attention than a stripper with daddy issues.
 

Just a Shot Away

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Falcon25 said:
Yeah, he is the most annoying dude here.
Don't worry, most people such as yourself are annoyed by the facts. Facts are so darn PESKY when you trade in the world of theory and conjecture...or so I've heard, anyway.

No wonder he struggles with chicks. They probably listen two minutes to this dude and know he is a boring fuvk.
Impossible! "LOOKS ARE EVERYTHING", as you said. I struggle with chicks solely because I am ugly (as anyone can see by my profile picture.) Gotta stick with what you said, man. Can't be wafflin' around with this stuff.
 
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