"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I Change?

akeith90

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So High School is alot on image right? I'd appreciate it if yall would critique my style (hair, clothes, etc). I'm 15, Freshman, 6' about 150 lbs. I know I'm skinny, but I'll be gettin quite a bit bigger soon. I'm shootin for 170 lbs or so. Picture of me. I have pretty straight teeth, no need for braces, that are white. I have a bit of acne, which is going away. My hair goes down to the top of my mouth when pulled straight, and stays shiny (but not oily). I basically just put a bit of wax in it to keep it in place. Don't wear glasses or contacts.

I wear Hollister, Aeropostale, etc. My shirts are fairly tight-fitting, but not to where you can see details. Jeans are just low-rise, boot-cut. Or I wear cargo shorts. I have a set of green Puma Romas that I usually wear.

My name is Andrew Jacob, but I go by AJ. This one dude told me that AJ is kind of childish and suggested I should go by something else. I'd really rather not go by Andrew, but if yall think I should start going by something else, then tell me please.

Not really sure what else to say, but tell me if yall think I should change some things to be more of a DJ. And please ask questions if I left something out
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i am me

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get some acne medication and jus get your own style cus we cant tell u how to dress...as long as u stay fresh n clean then youre fine
 

Ace of Flames

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It doesn't matter what we think. Be your own person. You're in high school, a moment in your life where you question your own choices and seek guidance about lots of things. No worries though, bro. We gotcha.

Ok, first off. All that stuff you listed? Yea, its not so important. Just dont look like a slob, or scare people, and your choices in clothes don't really matter. You don't have to be built or anything, though that's never a bad thing and it certainly helps. Having a presence, you know? Stay clean, smell good, get rid of any nasty habits. That's all I can tell you, really.
 

Mr_rogers

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Should I change you ask? I ask you a question... Are you happy or not? If yes, then no. If no, then yes.
 
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