should i call out a female friend?

[ne0phyte]

hey guys, i know this isn't dating related, but with all the aggregate experience here, i'd figure it's worth getting your guys' input.

so one of my closer female friends has been acting like a spoiled b*tchy princess lately. harshly judging people by their looks, always asking her other guy friends to do stuff for her but never returning the favor. etc etc. she definitely wasn't like this when i first met her, but with the way she's acting now, it's pretty much the only way i see her. every little thing, even if it was a small harmless favor, i now attribute it to her being a stuck up princess.so clearly, it's annoying the hell out of me. i hate princesses that expect to be pampered and taken care of, and think they're better than others just because they are good looking.

so the next time she tries to pull her crap, i was thinking of calling her out. but the other part of me says, "why bother?". just ignore her antics. it's not your job to teach her decency (ie, don't be captain save a ho).

so what do you guys think?

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Well if she's your friend and not a girl of romantic interest, I wouldn't call it the "captain save-a-ho" scenario.

Find a weakness in her physical appearance or comment on what she's wearing and say something like..

"Oh well that guy is too scrawny? That's all right I'm sure he wouldn't mind that little beer gut of yours, he looks like he would be into a girl with a little meat on her bones".. Kinda adapted from some Tom Leykis stuff (I don't really agree with everything that guy says but he's funny as fvck lol).

In all seriousness though, I think your guy friends need a talking to just as bad. About 90% of the time, women never even know what the fvck is coming out of their own mouths. Tell your friends to grow a fvcking backbone and put this little princess b1tch in her place. Or at least find a wimpy loser boyfriend to do all that bullsh1t for her.

I have a friend like this, except she'd always flirt around with me.. She would hug me all the time and act like my girlfriend in social situations. She would do this with our other friends too and when they made a move she'd push them away and call them creepy or some bullsh1t. So one night she was really hammered leading me on as usual.. So I just hooked up with her and we woke up in the same bed the next morning. I don't think she really knew what she did the night before cause she drank a lot but I know she felt real fvcking awkward. I just found it hillarious.

Taught her a lesson to get rid of her little b1tchy ****tease front to her friends.. Next time she gets drunk with a horny creep like me she might make a bad decision

 

[vatoloco]

What would you get out from calling her out?

 

[5string]

Who cares? Next her as your friend.

 

[ne0phyte]

what i would get from calling her out is satisfaction. haha it's stupid, but it would really feel good to call her out in front of everyone else. but i agree with 5string, in terms of just ignoring her sh!t and moving on

 

[TheJazz]

Dude, her misbehaving is clearly pissing you off. The only thing that matters in this life is your happiness and peace. If it bothers you that much, kick her ass for it (figuratively, of course). If she still doesn't listen, friendnext her.

 

[crazyboy]

If she just your friend why not. If your guy friend was being a little b!tch you would call him out right. So if you not into her sexuality or have any emotional attachment. Then call her out.

Dont understand why you guys make stuff with women so difficult.

 

[Scars]

Unless she is disrespecting YOU, I wouldn't bother.

You don't have to call her out, but let your actions speak if she every tries to pull that sh!t on you. Draw the line and set up boundaries between you two. Perhaps all the others will then learn from your example. But if everyone else can't stand up for themselves, that's not YOUR problem. You dig?

-Scars

 

[ne0phyte]

scars i think your advice is best, since she doesn't try pulling that stuff on me since i know better. it's just maddening to see other people cave in to her so easily. she's one of those girls that is a b!tch behind people's back and can easily turn on the tears when things don't go her way, or if she knows it will get her what she wants.

and guess what, her bf cooks, does the laundry, washes/gets gas for the car, and everything else she wants him to do. i feel bad for him putting her on a pedestal