CanuckinSK
Don Juan
Last year I moved to a new town (about two hours from where I live now) to take a higher paying job. Housing was (and is) hard to find around here, and I ended up renting a suite from a divorced mother of two, who was around my age.
We really hit if off personality wise, and seemed to have a mutual attraction. A couple months later, I summoned up the courage to ask her out, and the four of us went to dinner and an amusement park for the kids after.
Her kids really seemed to like me, and her son formed an instant bond with me. Our date ended cordially, and I suggested we go out again sometime, and left it at that.
We never did go out again, and I've since relocated to a different city. When I told her I was leaving, she was really disappointed and kind of pissed at me. She was nice however, when she returned my damage deposit.
Thing is, when I was trying to 'court' her, in my half-assed way, I was being 'super nice', putting her first, being completely accomodating, clearing snow from her sidewalk, and doing other little things for her, and generally just trying to win her over with 'niceness'.
I really liked her, she was very intelligent, outgoing, great sense of humour, and had a nice slim sexy figure. The one drawback; she had a psycotic ex who slashed her tires and was insanely jealous.
According to this site, I used a completely wrong approach(wuss). Should I try to pursue her again using DJ techniques? I'm pretty sure she was losing interest in the 'wuss' side that I presented before.
We really hit if off personality wise, and seemed to have a mutual attraction. A couple months later, I summoned up the courage to ask her out, and the four of us went to dinner and an amusement park for the kids after.
Her kids really seemed to like me, and her son formed an instant bond with me. Our date ended cordially, and I suggested we go out again sometime, and left it at that.
We never did go out again, and I've since relocated to a different city. When I told her I was leaving, she was really disappointed and kind of pissed at me. She was nice however, when she returned my damage deposit.
Thing is, when I was trying to 'court' her, in my half-assed way, I was being 'super nice', putting her first, being completely accomodating, clearing snow from her sidewalk, and doing other little things for her, and generally just trying to win her over with 'niceness'.
I really liked her, she was very intelligent, outgoing, great sense of humour, and had a nice slim sexy figure. The one drawback; she had a psycotic ex who slashed her tires and was insanely jealous.
According to this site, I used a completely wrong approach(wuss). Should I try to pursue her again using DJ techniques? I'm pretty sure she was losing interest in the 'wuss' side that I presented before.