"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Should I ask again ?

man_o_mystery

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Four months ago, I asked for this HB8's phone number, called her three days later to have coffee on Sunday. Called her Sunday and left a message, she never replied.

Saw her a few days later; she said that she was in another city for the weekend. I said f*ck it and nexted.

Fast forward four months later, she starts talking to me more and says that I'm cold and don't pay her any mind. I said "I remember giving you an opportunity to meet me a few months back and you flaked"...blah blah...her interest seems to be there...should I give her another chance? PS: She's very f*ckable...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NewMan

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when you said:

"I remember giving you an opportunity to meet me a few months back and you flaked"...
that was her opportunity to let you back in.

Wghat did she say?
 

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Originally posted by man_o_mystery
Four months ago, I asked for this HB8's phone number, called her three days later to have coffee on Sunday. Called her Sunday and left a message, she never replied.

Saw her a few days later; she said that she was in another city for the weekend. I said f*ck it and nexted.

Fast forward four months later, she starts talking to me more and says that I'm cold and don't pay her any mind. I said "I remember giving you an opportunity to meet me a few months back and you flaked"...blah blah...her interest seems to be there...should I give her another chance? PS: She's very f*ckable...
I say yes, just dont let your guard down, i think what you said about giving her an opportunity was great, make her work for your attention, if shes not willing to work for it, next her.
 
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