"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Short men and Average Height men should target average height women....

Nutz

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I'm ~5'6" and click well with women 5'10" or better. They're tall so they naturally feel weird being taller than guys and guys feel weird being around taller women. I'm so comfortable around virtually EVERYONE being taller that my being unaffected is a very attractive quality. Couple that with making her feel safe and secure and you're golden. You do this through storytelling, physical contact, etc.

The point here is that women aren't attracted to tall men per se. What women are attracted to are the emotions tall men naturally inspire in them, namely safety & security. Do that and you're well on your way regardless of your own or the woman's height.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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search1ng

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oh wow, i'm 5'8. WHO GIVES A ****. Just go out there and rock that womans world and all is good; if it doesn't work out, who gives a flying fck, plenty of women out there.
 
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