I have some real nice dress shoes and some nike running sneakers. I want to get some that look good but casual for going to class. I've been wearing the dress shoes and it's too much and too hot as well. Any suggestions?
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Shoes for just going to class?
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All white kicks look good IMO. Not too dressy and not too dressed-down. look greta with a pair of jeans.
Le Parisien
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If it's for high school classes or college classes, I'd suggest "old school" style sneakers or sports inspired casual shoes.
For example, the Adidas original series are pretty good, or most "slim" looking Puma shoes.
Like here and here and here or here
Or any "bowling shoes" looking/inspired sneakers looking shoes from any good traditional non sports brand.
Just remember that old school is in, light/slim is in, leave the bulky shoes to the nerds and keep your huge "modern" sneakers for the basketball courts only...
For example, the Adidas original series are pretty good, or most "slim" looking Puma shoes.
Like here and here and here or here
Or any "bowling shoes" looking/inspired sneakers looking shoes from any good traditional non sports brand.
Just remember that old school is in, light/slim is in, leave the bulky shoes to the nerds and keep your huge "modern" sneakers for the basketball courts only...
Francisco d'Anconia
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