*sigh*
Of course, this board has still not changed.....even though I have been gone for quite some time, most of the advice here STILL puts snotty high school tramps on a pedistal....
Look, Guitarfreaklite,
I read your post and I'm telling you right now that you shouldn't put up with that crap. I hear everybody telling you, "it's OK, you just made a MISTAKE". I heard one guy say that you FAILED, as if just because some stuck up little future trophy-wife doesn't like you or find you attractive, then you're a FAILURE.
Like THAT B!TCH gets to sum up your identity, and hand it to you for you to wear for the rest of your life.
No, the only mistake you ever made was allowing that girl to even lay a finger on you.
JUST BECAUSE A GIRL DUMPS YOU DOES *NOT* ALWAYS MEAN THAT SHE WAS *RIGHT* IN DUMPING YOU. IT DOES *NOT* ALWAYS MEAN THAT *YOU* DID ANYTHING TO CAUSE HER TO DUMP YOU!!
Don't any of you people realize that folk aint' GOT to have a reason to dislike you, lose interest in you, hate you, betray you, and just about anything else NEGATIVE in this world?
Look, females aren't perfect and they DON'T always tell the truth. And they are NOT always what they seem to be at first. There's great ones, but there are also rotten ones and selfish users....remember that (oh, and this goes for men, too).
And I hear everybody here patting you on the back, and feeling sorry for you because since she dumped you, you obviously "screwed something up".....but "it's okay" or whatever.
I read what you posted, you sharing with us how she treated you....and what I have to say about that is that a female has NO RIGHT WHATSOEVER to do something like that....whether you "screwed something up" or not. If what you said was true then this girl has absolutely no class whatsoever, and is just using you as a vehicle to feed her own wretched ego.
You go up to her, and you TELL HER, "Look, I don't want you talking about how I like you anymore. I have more interest in my SISTER than I do you, so get over it." And walk away.
You damn right....
Craig is BACK....and this time.....I'm a hardass!