"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's into me, but always busy

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This is not that complicated. She might like you, or she may be teasing you.

Generally speaking, when a woman texts you a lot or texts you dirty things etc, she may or may not be into you.
Generally speaking, when a woman is "always busy" she IS NOT INTO YOU, or SHE'S SEING SOME OTHER DUDE.

In any case you're not gonna get the pvssy anytime soon, so you can either forget about her and do your thing (recommended), or waste your time and hope some day she will be available(waste of time).

Up to you, hero.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Go play computer games or take a course in something, it should be no concern of yours what some girl is doing with her life. The more you get into your hobbies, the more women will actively pursue YOU. Take up magic cards, the new expansion is out soon:


Hobbies will give you protection from everything. My friend used to play this every hour after work, the girl he was dating had to buy him stuff just to get him to go and see her. After marrying her he became a millionaire and now spends ALL his time playing... there is something magic about magic.
 
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Lol it's no use telling this guy, he has watched to many love movies. It's no way a girl is into you but turn you down when it comes to hanging out. That does not make sense.

If you had a super hot chick and she ask you to hangout, would you tell her no because you was playing hard to get? Women do not play hard to get, they put you on the back burner because they are ****ing the guy that's on the top part of her list, period.

Girls are not shy, they have had way more sex partners then you. Acting shy is a defense mech to keep you in her pocket, and to keep you at arms length until she is done what the next guy, 9 times out of 10 she is never done with the number one guy.

Like my dude said, get a good hobby such as playing an addictive videogame or catching up on a tv series
 

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Girls are not shy, they have had way more sex partners then you.
This

It's a joke to me how guys still actually believe that women have had less sex and less sex partners than they have. And they believe the BS that comes out of womens' mouths when they tell you how many sex partners they've had. Unless the man is in a very small minority of men, MAYBE around 5%, there is no way that - on average - a woman will not have had WAY more sexual experiences than him. Let alone anywhere near an "even" amount. Men have to wake up and stop thinking women don't know what they're doing and are "shy" or "inexperienced". No, they are just using a trick as old as our species to trick men, and it works since we are as usual blinded by our egos and too stupid to piece together reality that women have and have had far more sex and sex partners than men.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So this girl is into me, I know she is, but she's just playing hard to get and she's also somewhat shy. Whenever I ask her to hang out, she always says shes busy. How do I get around this? I know she's into cause we text each other dirty things and she always answers my text really fast and always texts me.

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Let me shed some clarification.

I just recently met this girl because we go to the same school. She's definitely interested because I see the way she looks at me and we got some pretty good conversations going on over text. She's a very shy girl and I know she's playing hard to get. Me and her both know she wants my d1ck (we got some pretty sexual conversations going on).

I'm just wondering how I should cut through this "hard to get" bullsh1t game she's playing.
Ok

1. Re-read your title. IF SHE WAS INTO YOU SHE WOULD FIND TIME. Reread that are dispell your fantasy land you've created for this interaction.

2. Corey Wayne- "A woman with High IL makes it easy for you to date you, she will throw tests but they will be easy to spot and easy to pass"

Birds (girl to you non Brits) who 'play hard to get' have a low IL. Time to back away and pursue other options. Let her chase you or let some other douchebags run after her, You are WORTH MORE than that.
 
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