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Hi.
I was in my previous relationship for 4 years.
Recently a new girl has started where I work. She is on the same team as one of the lads I really get on with. It has got back to me that she likes me and she was asking if I had a girlfriend. We all went out for a drink one of the nights after work and she asked if I lived with my girlfriend to which I replied no, still living at home at the moment.
Anyway we never had each others numbers because I was still with my ex at the time. We emailed each other at work and it seemed like there was a connection there. I told her aswell face to face that I do like her and I am considering ending my relationship with my girlfriend, not because of her but because of how I feel in general, even though she is a factor.
She told me she had not long came out of a relationship which she had ended and that she wasnt ready for a relationship but would see how things go.
The weekend came and after a few drinks and that we had sexual intercourse at my mates house on the sofa 4 times. I was still with my ex at the time and afterwards she asked how I felt about it and if it was the first time, i answered yes but didnt give much more information. I ended up going back to hers and we got physical again 2 more times. She also told me it was the best sex she ever had.
I have since finished things with my girlfriend and have this girls phone number. We have text a few times but now problems have arisen.
If we go out with work colleagues or whenever anyone else is around she hardly speaks to me or if i say something and someone else speaks its like i wasnt even there!
Also even though she likes me and i like her, a couple of days ago she went out and let one of the lads from her training group when she started work stay at hers for the night (she lives alone). Am i speculating something happened or could it be genuine?
She said it was mentioned ages ago and that she reminded him a couple of days ago. When I asked the next day how her night was and if she was up all night (she said she was tired) she replied and said no your the only person i do an all nighter with.
she comes across like she likes me but she doesnt express herself easy.
The fact she knows i like her and let another guy stay at hers after some drinks is a bit confusing even though she is single and can do what she likes.
The way she acts around other people towards me is bizarre too.
We went around hers with a few mates and I was outside having a cigarette with her best friend and we were outside for about 20 minutes. When I got back inside she was really awkward with me. She suspected something had gone on with her best friend and me (possibly after i had cheated on my ex with her has given her doubts). but she did say after that she believes me.
It's been a few days now and we are texting but when I ask to meet or spend some time with her alone and not around other people she makes excuses and says she will let me know but doesnt.. I offered to fix her phone charger and pop round hers on the way home and she said she was tired in bed and she would bring it into work.
It just seems like the buzz from before has gone, A lot of blokes at work like her and flirt a lot.
I dunno what to do because she doesnt express herself easily, i might seem like i would cheat on her if we got with each other from her point of view.
I text her now and it takes forever for her to text back and she always says she was asleep or her phone was on silent.
Is this the time to back off a little bit? I give her a lift on a wed, thur and fri when we have the same shift at work. I was thinking to just ignore her for a few days now or to just take the piss when texting back like she does but it seems like if it took me a while to text back she wouldnt even care.
Any ideas?
thanks
I was in my previous relationship for 4 years.
Recently a new girl has started where I work. She is on the same team as one of the lads I really get on with. It has got back to me that she likes me and she was asking if I had a girlfriend. We all went out for a drink one of the nights after work and she asked if I lived with my girlfriend to which I replied no, still living at home at the moment.
Anyway we never had each others numbers because I was still with my ex at the time. We emailed each other at work and it seemed like there was a connection there. I told her aswell face to face that I do like her and I am considering ending my relationship with my girlfriend, not because of her but because of how I feel in general, even though she is a factor.
She told me she had not long came out of a relationship which she had ended and that she wasnt ready for a relationship but would see how things go.
The weekend came and after a few drinks and that we had sexual intercourse at my mates house on the sofa 4 times. I was still with my ex at the time and afterwards she asked how I felt about it and if it was the first time, i answered yes but didnt give much more information. I ended up going back to hers and we got physical again 2 more times. She also told me it was the best sex she ever had.
I have since finished things with my girlfriend and have this girls phone number. We have text a few times but now problems have arisen.
If we go out with work colleagues or whenever anyone else is around she hardly speaks to me or if i say something and someone else speaks its like i wasnt even there!
Also even though she likes me and i like her, a couple of days ago she went out and let one of the lads from her training group when she started work stay at hers for the night (she lives alone). Am i speculating something happened or could it be genuine?
She said it was mentioned ages ago and that she reminded him a couple of days ago. When I asked the next day how her night was and if she was up all night (she said she was tired) she replied and said no your the only person i do an all nighter with.
she comes across like she likes me but she doesnt express herself easy.
The fact she knows i like her and let another guy stay at hers after some drinks is a bit confusing even though she is single and can do what she likes.
The way she acts around other people towards me is bizarre too.
We went around hers with a few mates and I was outside having a cigarette with her best friend and we were outside for about 20 minutes. When I got back inside she was really awkward with me. She suspected something had gone on with her best friend and me (possibly after i had cheated on my ex with her has given her doubts). but she did say after that she believes me.
It's been a few days now and we are texting but when I ask to meet or spend some time with her alone and not around other people she makes excuses and says she will let me know but doesnt.. I offered to fix her phone charger and pop round hers on the way home and she said she was tired in bed and she would bring it into work.
It just seems like the buzz from before has gone, A lot of blokes at work like her and flirt a lot.
I dunno what to do because she doesnt express herself easily, i might seem like i would cheat on her if we got with each other from her point of view.
I text her now and it takes forever for her to text back and she always says she was asleep or her phone was on silent.
Is this the time to back off a little bit? I give her a lift on a wed, thur and fri when we have the same shift at work. I was thinking to just ignore her for a few days now or to just take the piss when texting back like she does but it seems like if it took me a while to text back she wouldnt even care.
Any ideas?
thanks
