she wants to be exclusive

[theonedude]

hey all, if you remember i got a number from a girl a cople days ago, well i did some stuff w/ her, but she wants to be exclusive.

no i know im not datin ne1 else neways, but there are a couple agirls that have been eyeing me lately..

what are all yer views on exclusive relationships?

 

[rich_uk]

yea you need to decide how much you like her, and whether you think this could be a LTR and therefore whether its worth being exclusive.

the only problem with not being exclusive is if she gets with someone else and ends up ditching you if they decide to get exclusive, you could get sloppy seconds and she could be a jealous evil bihatch.

 

[theonedude]

im not sure!!!
of any of that stuff

ive only known her for 3 days.

 

[rich_uk]

you could always tell her you are being exlcusive but still go for the other girls. risky though.

 

[Mr. Latte]

I can answer this for you in 4 short words....


"RUN FOR ZEE HILLS!!!!"

 

[The Bishop]

exclusivity is never a good thing in highschool unless you've been together 5-6 months, generally

 

[Escalade]

Just tell her you want to get to know her better before becoming exclusive.

If she can't understand that then you need to NEXT her quick because having a relationship with a girl like that is hell.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Oh my god you've known this girl only a few days and she wants to be exclusive already!? Is she 13??? Don't do it.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

Ahh i remember the weirdness of girls back in School..good times good times...anyways..DONT.

I highly doubt you feel the same way...cmon its only been a few days.

Sexy_Malibu..thats an interesting sig you got there..are you a stray swirlgirl?

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Sexy_Malibu..thats an interesting sig you got there..are you a stray swirlgirl?

That depends... are you guys all going to persecute me if I am? What gave me away? Just the pure fact of being female??

I'm not here to cause any beef between the BGs & the DJs... (I'm somewhat of a female DJ myself, ha ha...)

If you read any of my posts, then you'll notice I'm not here to criticize and disagree... I'm only responding to the threads that I agree with or think I can be helpful with... Not here to argue. I always used to read the DJ boards just out of sick curiousity and then I figured, What the ****!? I'm going to post.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

Sexy_M, i just look at your sig..and you referred to this as "The DJ site" so it was a shot in the dark.

At any rate, welcome to the boards.

There are a handful of females around here who post some good stuff, and they are generally respected.

IMO, i think BGS is mostly a crock of sh*t, but it doesnt mean all the posters there are full of it..and i guess thats a different story.


Have a good one.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Originally posted by SLIKKER_THAN_AVG

IMO, i think BGS is mostly a crock of sh*t, but it doesnt mean all the posters there are full of it..and i guess thats a different story.

Well like I said, I'm not going to start any beef between the BGs & the DJs... I think we're really not that different...

At the swirl we're there to support our girls. Here, you guys are here to support your fellow-DJs.

You'd be surprised how similar some of the posts are. (Of course, there are plently of differences but like I said, not here to bring up anything to start arguments, hee hee).

The BGS has its purposes and the "DJ Site" has its purposes too. A lot of my female friends make fun of me that I'm such a guy (dating-sex-wise) so I figured I wouldn't necessarily be SO out of place posting here. But I'm also somewhat of a (gasp) feminist in my own ways, but I'll be sure to leave that side of me to the swirl.

 

[Exiled]

Originally posted by rich_uk
you could always tell her you are being exlcusive but still go for the other girls. risky though.

Lol, I also did that. She found out when she read one of my chat logs. I was talking to a friend in it, about how I let her be in love with me and think she is exclusive, while in the meantime I date with other girls.

She cried out. But i did some good word, dunno what I said exactly but she's happy again. I never told her I was in love with her so I didn't lied.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Well like I said, I'm not going to start any beef between the BGs & the DJs... I think we're really not that different...

At the swirl we're there to support our girls. Here, you guys are here to support your fellow-DJs.

You'd be surprised how similar some of the posts are. (Of course, there are plently of differences but like I said, not here to bring up anything to start arguments, hee hee).

The BGS has its purposes and the "DJ Site" has its purposes too. A lot of my female friends make fun of me that I'm such a guy (dating-sex-wise) so I figured I wouldn't necessarily be SO out of place posting here. But I'm also somewhat of a (gasp) feminist in my own ways, but I'll be sure to leave that side of me to the swirl.

Im sure many here will welcome your advice then Malibu, Cheers.

 

[theonedude]

ahh its too late i already asked her cuz her firend pressured me, and we havent kissed, buti have only known her for 5 days now so yea.

 

[die4me]

You haven't kissed and you're already exclusive!? What if she's horrible at it? Oh well, good luck bro, you're gonna need it. I'm serious though, at the first sign of any trouble, break it off. Don't be the guys who start falling in. She better be a hottie too if you've only known her for 5 days.

 

[Solja J]

Whats a bg?