she showws interest, then withdraws...

[gimmeyofonenumba]

hb8 been a month since I approached her. She doesnt return calls, but will call me a few days later. Does the same thing with texts, I offerred a date early on, and she said she wanted to talk more before so. Then the next day says I should come to the beach with her sometime, just some random text. I last called her on wed. no answer, havent heard from her at all. I check my fb and see she liked a bunch off my pics , just a few hrs ago. Im gonna call her on sunday, and that'll be tthe last time. Oppinions?

 

[Daniel_March]

hb8 been a month since I approached her. She doesnt return calls, but will call me a few days later. Does the same thing with texts, I offerred a date early on, and she said she wanted to talk more before so. Then the next day says I should come to the beach with her sometime, just some random text. I last called her on wed. no answer, havent heard from her at all. I check my fb and see she liked a bunch off my pics , just a few hrs ago. Im gonna call her on sunday, and that'll be tthe last time. Oppinions?

here is my opinion...

She has you wrapped around her finger, my friend.

Grow a pair of balls and challenge her.

Call her on her **** " So where do you think we are going with this? Are we going to meet up or what?" if she comes up with some bull**** excuse which she will (I know the type of Attention ***** deficit disorder) just tell her to **** off and move on.

Two things will happen

First - you will teach her a great lesson in life which no other wasteman could teach her

Second- she might even begin to chase after you

peace...

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I like that advice. My plan has always beeen too play cool, and it worked well with the last girl I dated. I think I'll do wwhatcha reccommended, peace brotha.

 

[Daniel_March]

Look man, you are your own person.
Remember that you are in control, my advice may work or not.

It works for me well...

Do what you think is right, but remember to respect yourself and expect respect from others.

DO NOT LET ANYONE TAKE YOU FOR A ****

 

[Johnnyventana]

Do NOT call her on her shyte and be a little girl! Ghey. Lame. You don't have a relationship with her. That would be weird. (Someone needs to read the bible.)

She is keeping you as an 'option' only. Don't play her game. To 'like' something means nothing and is simply a click.

You did your part. Now it's time to chill. She'll either come to you or she won't. But she super won't if you are too available and chase. Because she simply wouldn't need to. 101 stuff here.

 

[Daniel_March]

You want to give him advice, do so.

Do not assume that what I said was wrong. Little girls let people push them around, real men do not allow these silly games.

Our boy has been chasing the girl for 4 weeks... time to let go

 

[Aaron B]

she either has low interest in you, or she's an adherent of "The Rules"

either way, she isn't earning your time and attention

when you reward girls who haven't earned your time and attention, you disrespect yourself

when you disrespect yourself, she isn't going to respect you