"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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styleman

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Female says:

"Shut Up"
"Rule 1, If you don't get the joke, don't question it"

Is this a sign that my C&F is not working? Still getting positive reactions from the girl, but clearly not in those situations.
Any insight?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Depends on the tone. Either it's a playful shut up or you said something really offensive.
 

styleman

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md3sign said:
Depends on the tone. Either it's a playful shut up or you said something really offensive.
Niether, she's pretty 'ratty' it was not that offensive, and a pretty uninvolved tone.
 

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don't know if her physical hotness is enough to outweigh it, but she kinda sounds like a b itch
 

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Obsidian said:
don't know if her physical hotness is enough to outweigh it, but she kinda sounds like a b itch
Physicaly she does, and in terms of personal topics she is a nice person, it's just we're both 'inteligent' people, and don't always agree on all 'non-personal' topics.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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