Been going out on dates with this HB for the past 2 months. She seems to be really interested, calling me more then I call her. I was getting all the right vibes from her. She told me all the other guys shes seeing aren't anything serious. I finally asked her out and got a polite no. What to do now? Next?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She said no!
- Thread starter AceyR6
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Oscar Wilde
Master Don Juan
You can't next. Cos she's already nexted you. Move on, there's plenty out there.
That sucks man. Why didn't you just **** her instead of asking her out? It's probably what she wanted to do in the first place.
I've never had an LTR with an HB (never had a girl I could officially say was my GF) but the ones that I managed to date more than twice gave me sex at least once.
I've never had an LTR with an HB (never had a girl I could officially say was my GF) but the ones that I managed to date more than twice gave me sex at least once.
Starman
Master Don Juan
hahhahaha Thats Like When you get fired at your job, and you say! I QUIT!Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
You can't next. Cos she's already nexted you. Move on, there's plenty out there.
I dont get this post..you say you went out on a couple dates with her..then you finally asked her out and she said no??
am I supposed to read your post in reverse..?
She was basically telling you to get serious or get out. You waited to long to make your move bro. If you're not fvcking her after the 3rd date then your not moving forward.She told me all the other guys shes seeing aren't anything serious.
now go out, find a new chick, and start again.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Lone_raider
Senior Don Juan
If just you and her were going out, then that should be classed as a date, unless you/her deemed it just friends, in which case you were screwed right from the start.
I'm confused as well, you went out a few times, then asked her out? How did you do that? lol. Sounds like you needed to make a move in there somewhere instead of asking for an 'official' date of some kind.
I'm confused as well, you went out a few times, then asked her out? How did you do that? lol. Sounds like you needed to make a move in there somewhere instead of asking for an 'official' date of some kind.
dionysius_d
Senior Don Juan
2 months!!
that's a long time.. some people live and die in that time...
that's a long time.. some people live and die in that time...