"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She met me at the wrong Starbucks!!

TxCowboy

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I told her to meet me at a starbucks off a road near me and she went to another one in the town just down the road (15 min away) ...

She was there on time :D - I had her drive back up to the one where I was and we laughed about it . Makes me mad though because I was pretty clear about the directions on the phone. I told her that while she was on the way over I had to go fuel up my car anyways because I was out of gas .

We did meet up at the right Starbucks and had a good evening. Anyone had this b4 ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Julian

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have i ever met someone at a wrong place due to miscommunication? yeah i think we all have..not much to discuss here.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, isn't this a bit trivial?
 
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